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Taking Your Online Connection Offline: The Meet-Up

A Guide on How Not to Make it Awkward

After you assembled your online dating profile with an updated ‘About Me’ page and a high-end studio display picture, you will definitely get a lot of hits. After thorough scanning, you will finally choose a potential candidate to meet outside the virtual world. It can be scary for some as they may not turn out to be who they said they were. However, in order to reach that consensus, you have to give them a chance. It all depends on how the first meeting goes.

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Once you have taken the plunge and have asked him/her out, now will be the time to truly take your relationship to the next level. How are you going to do that? Read on to find out.

1.      First Impressions Count:

Dress your best is all one can say when it comes to meeting a potential partner. You are meeting the one person you have been talking to for months and you obviously want to look your best now that you are meeting them in person.

2.      Always Communicate Before the Meeting:

Always talk on the phone and discuss meet up plans a day before the actual date. It will relieve some nervousness and eeriness when you actual meet. It also opens the door to hear that person’s voice and judge their tone, attitude and way of talking. You can tell a lot about a person just by the way he/she speaks the language and the tone he/she chooses.

3.      Be You!

This can’t be stressed on enough. You have to yourself. The time to pretend to be someone you are not is over. If you really want this relationship to turn into something serious, you would want them to love you for who you truly are.

4.      Make Up for All the Lies:

Now is the time to come clean about all those lies you deliberately and calculatingly told. You shouldn’t have lied in the first place but if you did say a few things that weren’t true but were also not very significant lies, now is the time to come clean about them. Apologize and tell them the reasons why you needed to lie. Your relationship won’t get anywhere if you continue to lie.

5.      Set Up to Meet in a Public Place:

Even if you have known them for months, they could still turn out to be a pedophile. When one has the liberty to hide behind a screen and be someone they want to be, chances of scams multiply. Why take the risk? It is best to stay safe and meet in a public place. It is also better to bring someone along so that you can stay safe. Just make them sit on another table!

6.      Don’t be a Dinner Girl:

Just because you hit if off online doesn’t mean it is going to go all well on an actual date too. They could turn out to be the complete opposite of what they were online. Accepting a dinner invitation means you will have to spend at least two hours together. There is no escaping that. If you want to save yourself form that torture, go for drinks instead. If you two get along well, you can definitely aim to eat out together the next time you meet.

7.      Try Flirting:

First dates are all about flirting. Even if you have already flirted on online chats, now is the time to really bring your A-game. Partners, especially women, want a man who is more approachable and frank in person than online. They want someone who is better than the online version and not the complete opposite. Now is the time to show how sexy, easy-going and funny you can be via your expressions and body language. Basically, do all that you weren’t able to do

5 Things to Know Before Getting into a Long Distance Relationship

Long distance relationships are always difficult to maintain. They often collapse under the heavy weight of a lack of physical interaction, escalating credit card bills, trips to the faraway land to meet them and frequent skyping. Only a few lucky couples are able to make them work. So, if you don’t wish to learn “someone’s absence makes the heart grow fonder” the hard way, continue reading to imagine what a long distance relationship actually feels like.

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1.      LDRs Are Mostly Just Promises:

Let’s get one thing straight; a relationship isn’t complete without physical interaction. Anyone who tells you otherwise has learned nothing over the years. Long distance relationships are more like promises and expectations a partner makes with their other half; promises about how a relationship will be once you two get together. You tell your partner things like how much you wished you were there, what would you have done, how you would have laughed/cried with them, how you would have helped them relieve their stress and much more. All these are promises and expectations only become a reality when fulfilled.

2.      LDRs Can’t Stay LDRs Forever:

You can’t expect your partner to spend all their life based on a promise you made to them years ago. If you want your relationships to work, you will have to take out the time for them and plan actual meet ups, even if that includes taking a 20 hour trip to reach to them. It is expected of you to do so. Skype is not the permanent solution. You will only be able to sustain a long distance relationship if you fulfill all the promises you made online in reality by actually showing up and doing things together.

If you are in a long distance relationship, you need to have a future goal in mind. Both the partners need to think and discuss where their relationship will be in the next 5 years. Are they looking for a permanent relocation, are they looking at a vacation together in the summers or is it still going to be over Skype?

3.      Physical Absence will Start to Bother:

Ask a soldier on duty for 9 months straight what it feels like to be hugged by that special someone in their lives. it is common sense that when you are in a long distance relationship, even the smallest of gestures, like holding each other’s hand, dining out together cuddling and spooning, watching  a movie together on the couch, being there to support at home when they feel low, argue, kiss, dance together or even seeing them smile up close will seem big.

You will crave nearness and the lack of it will nearly kill you. You may try sexting but that will only work for a couple of months before it really starts to become more of an issue. Physical affection from a partner is important. Even the most advanced technological apps can’t replace face-to-face interaction.

If you think your relationships can work without any chance of intimacy, you may want to reconsider before getting in one.

4.      Time Zones will Become a Hindrance:

LDRs that span over different time zones are more difficult to sustain, especially if their night time is your waking up time and your good evenings are their good mornings. When separated by hundreds of miles, relationships suffer due to a lack of communication. Fights are usually on topics like you promised to stay up and talk but you slept without telling me. Even if it wasn’t done on purpose, it does cause frustration and becomes a reason to fight.

Understand that long distance relationships require a lot of patience from both the partners. You can’t always expect to be taken for granted and neither can your partner. If you can handle the pressure of adjusting to their times zones, craft a schedule and live up to it, long distance relationships are for you. However, if not, it’s better not to initiate one and prevent heartache in the near future.

5.      Jealousy and Insecurity will Eventually Breed:

We have already established that a lack of physical presence will itself start to bother after sometime in a LDR. It is also normal for partners which live miles away to feel insecure. There may be a 100 reasons why they aren’t able to give you time (tough work schedules, socializing with friends, giving family proper time, time zone difference etc.) but the most convenient one is to assume that they are cheating on you with someone else. If one of the partners is a jealous-type, this can be very problematic. Wishing you were there beside them and not actually being there in real is going to increase the tension. It will start to feel more like rejection when you believe that your partner’s first priority isn’t you and they enjoy doing things with their friends more than talking to you.

If you can assure your partner that you can be fully trusted and show how much they mean to you through your gestures, a long distance relationship is for you.

Time Difference Makes All the Difference

When talking about the side-effects of a relationship scattered in different time zones, such as a 6 hours+ difference between the US and Ukraine, they can be pretty overwhelming. The uncertainty of whether your partner is honest or is openly cheating while you are staying up all night for them is only one of the few issues couples in a long distance relationship (LDR) have.

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It might be true that they are difficult but not impossible to deal with. All that is required of you is to put in a little extra effort to keep it alive and healthy. Read on to find out how you can do it:

Set a Talking Schedule

Since you were up all night talking to your partner, you may feel exhausted in the morning. You know you have to get to the office, work 8 hours straight and lastly, attend a family gathering before finally coming to bed again. This is the exact picture of how different time zones can affect relationships.

The truth is; there will never be a good time to talk to each other. By the time you finally get done with all your work, you may realize that your partner has already dozed off after waiting for you. The next time you wake up, they greet you with a good afternoon message. Rather than compromising on your health, always set a time that suits you both. Remember; communication in a relationship separated by time zones is important!

Be Flexible

Time zones can be super challenging. You may feel like breaking down and in dire need of your partner to hold you close but he/she might be busy with a hectic work schedule or might be enjoying a peaceful sleep. You know that the only thing you need to feel better is to be with them. You may also feel rejected and unimportant. You need to show flexibility and understand your partner’s point of view rather than breaking into a fight with them. They may get called in for an urgent task at the office or may have a family emergency to attend to while you stay awake all night waiting for them to come online.

Prepare to be flexible when in a LDR having different time zones because chances are that it is likely to happen more than once.

Communicate Everything:

Plan all your next day’s schedule in advance. Share with them the details and expectations of the next day. If you have a big presentation coming up and might not be able to get in touch with them, let them know about it in advance so that they don’t feel left out. Every relationship is built on the foundations of strong communication. In a long distance relationship, it becomes even more important to be on the same page.

Plan Date Nights:

There are many apps, like Messenger, WhatsApp, Skype, Facetime etc. that allow free of cost communication via videos and chats. Make the most of these technological applications. Learn to use them if you don’t already know how to because the sad reality is that they are the closest interaction you can have with your partner when they are not beside you on the bed. To make things spicier, plan date nights where you two can watch a movie together while eating popcorn and other snacks.

Women, Dating and the Misconceptions

Whether you are a 40 Year Old Virgin or feel 17 Again, when it comes to women, there is hardly anything that can help. Women are a mystery and trying to win over the one you really like makes the dating ritual even more complicated.

But that is just the male version of “What women are?” In this blog post, we will try to expose all those superstitions that men usually have when it comes to understanding a woman.

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1.      They Like it when you Play Cool:

In 3 words: NO THEY DON’T. If there is one thing that every guy must know about a woman is that she loves to be the centre of attention. She likes to feel wanted and craves compliments.

Playing it cool so that you don’t come off as desperate is the exact opposite of it. Telling her that you will not be available for another date until next month because you are busy with something or are being rude to her will only make you look like an insensitive chap.

2.      They Obsess Over You All the Time

If you think that she will be obsessing over after the first date, stalking your social media profile and waiting by the bedside phone to receive a call from your end, you might be terribly wrong. She might very well be shopping for her next week’s date she has lined up. To them, dating is a means to get out there and have a good time. They are not always expecting a marriage proposal in return.

3.      They Prefer to Cuddle over Sex:

That’s just all in your head. Like men, Ukrainian women also think about sexual encounters with the opposite gender. Maybe not that often but saying that they never would be a myth. In fact, after a date gone well, sex is among the top three things on their mind. It isn’t always the traditional fully-clothed spooning that they desire; they do adore the idea of a romantic and steamy romp.

4.      They Always Want the Unutterable “R” thing:

No, they don’t always want relationships (There, we said it!). Just because they are showing an interest in you doesn’t mean that they are desperate to make the first person they meet their husband. True, Ukrainian women outrank men by a 15% ratio but that doesn’t mean that they don’t wish for a summer fling.

5.      They are Looking for Alpha Males:

No, they aren’t! The very connotation of this word refers to a person who doesn’t showcase his weaknesses. If you think woman want that kind of a man to date, then you are wrong. Women and emotions are best friends. Like other women, Ukrainian women too crave long conversations during the night, love talking about your fears and future plans and imagine a happily ever after with you. They are masters of handling the tears; so, don’t shy away by thinking that she might find you to be too soft and vulnerable.

6.      Babies are the Only Things on their List:

A very common misconception about Ukrainian woman is that once they like a man, all they want to do is get married and have kids. It’s time to pop that bubble. Most women today are very career-oriented and might not even have marriage let alone babies on their priority list.

If you still feel such vibes from her end, there is no harm in actually having a conversation about the future and see where she imagines you two being in the next 5 years.

14 Sure-tell Signs your Relationship is Going Somewhere Good

Who said being in a relationship is easy? Most of the times, they are difficult to navigate and often takes years for couples to realize that they aren’t a perfect match for each other. On other occasions, you get so accustomed to being unhappy that you forget what happiness looks like and you get taken for granted all your life. However, that doesn’t happen if you are in the right relationship. Everything in the right relationship is beautiful. Smiles reach the eyes, the sun shines brighter, you fall in love with rain and you enjoy doing stuff that you hated before; only so that you can see a big smile on your partner’s face. Those are signs that you are indeed the perfect match.

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In this blog post, we will be looking at 14 such beautiful signs that your relationship is a healthy and strong one.

1.      Decisions are Made After a Joint Consensus:

Only one partner doesn’t call all the shots. Important decisions that may impact the relationship are taken after thoroughly discussing its repercussions. Couples in a strong relationship don’t impose each other’s decisions or opinions on their partners. Instead, they listen, discuss and come to a mutual conclusion to whatever issue is under debate.

2.      You can Freely Speak your Opinion:

Opinions are respected. A relationship where one partner feels that they are unable to express themselves freely is not strong. Conversely, in a strong relationship, both partners understand the importance of being heard. They know that valuing what the other has to say is the key to sustaining a long-lasting and healthy relationship.

3.      You Fight Maturely:

Fights are important. They are a means of letting out all the frustration which may have built up inside. They are a means to clear confusions that one or both partners may have about their relationship, which is why couple should have productive fights occasionally in order to keep the relationship moving forward. Productive fights allow the partners to reach a common ground, compromise on a few things and better understand the perspective of the other person. It’s not about winning or losing; it’s about dealing with problems in a mature manner.

4.      Personal Space is Valued:

You are in a strong relationship if you understand the need for socializing with other people rather than with just your partner. If you value personal space and are able to establish a balance between your social life and partner, your relationship if definitely going the right way.

5.      There is Unconditional Trust:

Trust is valued. Even if one of the partners isn’t able to give the other enough time, they aren’t questioned. They aren’t blamed for being the cause. Instead, when it’s real, these things don’t matter. You don’t expect an answer from your partner about their whereabouts because they came home late last night. You assume that they might have tried to get out earlier but couldn’t.

6.      You Make Each Other a Better Person:

When in a relationship, both partners strive to become the best versions of themselves. They inspire each other to do things they don’t like doing, just to see a smile on their partner’s face, even if that involves watching a two hour chick-flick or watching a football match you barely know a thing about. You do it for the person next to you. It is a sure-tell sign that your partner is ready to invest in your likes and dislikes and wants you to know that you are valued.

7.      Loving Deeds are Always Appreciated:

Strong couples know the importance of appreciation. They understand that words and actions of praise are a great way to keep the relationship moving forward – preventing it from going stale. Even the smallest of gestures, like a see-off hug before leaving for work, is a sign that you are fully committed to your partner and know how much it matters to them.

8.      Troubles Bring you Closer, not Tear you Apart:

Instead of locking yourself in the room and crying about your troubles, you let each other in on them and look for a solution. Troubles are what bring you closer. They become the reason for you two to spend more time together and figure out a solution to them rather than going on a time out or emotionally shutting down.

9.      The Past is Not an Issue:

Past relationships and exes are off the table. In a strong relationship, whatever happened, happened, and is not discussed. It doesn’t become a fighting reason unless it is serious.

10.  Disagreements are Respected:

In every relationship, there are some differences. Everyone has a different opinion and a way of seeing things. What may seem normal to one in a relationship might be a big thing in the eyes of the other. Disagreements tend to happen. Only the ones who are strong enough to acknowledge their differences and stay together through thick and thin are the ones that will last longer.

11.  You can Trust them with Secrets:

Instead of gossiping about your partner on a brunch or guys night out, unfortunately, you and your partner don’t share a strong relationship. If you trust someone with your deep and twisted secrets, you expect them to keep them a secret. If they aren’t, you really need to reconsider the longevity of your relationship.

12.  Sexual Compatibility is Great:

To sustain a strong relationship, sexual compatibility is also an important factor. Both the partners need to understand that mutual compatibility is necessary. There may be times when one might not feel as enthusiastic or adventurous as the other but sexual flames should never burn out. You are not in a strong relationship if your partner has started to treat sex as a chore and has made it clear that they are not physically attracted to you via their little interest in the matter or act.

13.  You Two Play Fair:

Instead of creating a bigger fuss of an issue than it already is, strong couples don’t give each other the silent treatment or hurt the other because one of them initiated it. There are no double-meaning taunts, the three magical words aren’t taken for granted and communication doesn’t die away. Strong couples don’t let insecurities and jealousy come in the middle. Most importantly, they don’t run from each other; they stay back to fix what needs fixing and talk it out. Once they do, forgiveness comes easy and balance is restored.

14.  You Two are the Only Ones Calling the Shots:

An occasional word of wisdom from an experienced third person is good but not always appreciated.  You are in a strong relationship if you pay little to no heed to what an outsider has to say about you two. You value each other and don’t let a third person or their opinions get in the way. During a time out, instead of going over at your friends to seek advice, you work it out among yourselves rather than relying on another’s words.

Questions To Ask and Questions Not To Ask On Your First Date

It isn’t hard to spot those first-time daters in a bistro café. Nicely dressed, with a nervous and tensed look on their faces, looking and scanning everyone that comes in the front door; yes, they are the ones we are talking about. Once their potential date arrives, they stand up, greet them with a smile while still being tense and try to initiate a conversation by talking about something as random as the weather outside. Halfway during the salad round, they both have decided they aren’t meant for each other because there is no common ground to talk about.

This could happen to you. That partner could have turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to you but since you didn’t know how to approach them correctly, you miss out on a great opportunity. The key to the perfect first date is to have relaxed conversation about things that you both enjoy talking about without feeling the pressure of revealing too much or too little about yourself. Therefore, it all comes down to asking the right questions, which is what this blog post is about.

Subjects to Talk About

Influential People:

This could be a great topic to talk on as each one of us has been inspired by someone in your lives. It could be your parents, your teachers, your mentors or some celebrity. The answer could be a great insight to learn about who he/she truly admires. People who inspire us and our idols say a lot about our own personalities. The reason we admire someone is because we want to become like them. It could be Nelson Mandela, Bill Gates or Kanye West. Whoever it is, it tells you a lot about the type of person they are and wish to become in the near future.

Things that Make them Laugh:

There is nothing more delightful than dating a person with a good sense of humor. Asking about things that makes them happy, smile or go into fits of laughter is another great conversation starter. It could be anything from a child’s smile to watching an old couple on the escalator teasing one another. This can easily lead to hearing funny incidents from the past which will make the first date all the more comfortable and less awkward.

Movies, Music and TV Shows:

This is universally the world’s best icebreaker. Even if one doesn’t listen to music, watch TV shows or goes out for movies frequently, they will still be familiar with what’s trending and what’s not. There is a 90% chance that some mutual ground will be recognized, all thanks to advanced technology.

Future Plans:

This is always a risky attempt to make with a potential date. It could go either way. It may make you appear clingy and desperate for a relationship or might make you appear to be boring with no room for spontaneous adventures. It’s best to avoid asking such a question unless you have the perfect answer to offer when asked the same.

True Calling in Life:

Asking if they are happy with the person they are today can also offer great insights into a potential partner’s mind. Only a few achieve self-actualization and most of us are still trying to figure out where we need to be. This question will allow them to open up about themselves and talk about their aspirations in life.

Subjects to Avoid

The ex-factor

Talking about your ex on the first date is like naming “he who must not be named”. They are off limits, unless you want your date to think one of these two things, (a) you still haven’t gotten over her/him, (b) you were the problem in the relationship because you have to say bitter things about them. Both these scenarios aren’t suitable to be in; so, better to avoid it.

Talking about your Weird Fetishes

No need to scare off your potential partner by revealing your weird fixations. Instead of telling them that you have a thing for nerds or clowns, rather show off your good side. First dates are all about making the right impression. Sooner or later, they will find out about that thing you have for nerds when you are with them. Don’t scare them off by posing as a psycho.

Talking About your Family Issues

No need to tell your date that you haven’t talked to your sister since 1997 because she made fun of you in front of the whole school or haven’t been in touch with your mom after she got you that awful hairstyle. Whatever issues you have with your family and friends, they are not great conversation starters, at least for the first time you meet them. If they stick by, they are most definitely going to know about your complex family dramas. So, don’t reveal too much the first time around.

15 Life Saver Tips to making a Long Distance Relationship Work

“She may be all things nice dude but… long distance relationships never work!”

Don’t listen to all that gibberish advice from family members, your coworkers or your friends. If you believe you have found your soul mate, don’t let anything (even the distance) come between you two.

Yes, it is going to be really tough. At times, you will just want an out but long distance relationships don’t always fail. It is an opportunity to know a person the way they truly are from a distance, understand their importance in your life, miss the simplest of gestures, such as holding their hand while crossing the road, smelling their freshly shampooed hair or waking up next to them every morning.

If you are in one and are trying to figure out how to make a long distance relationship work, below are 12 tips to strengthen your relationship and show all your friends that miracles can happen!

1.      Make Them Your Priority:

A relationship is like a beaded necklace; it only takes a moment for the thread to break and the beads from scattering all over the floor. Thus, every step taken needs to be taken with caution.  When in a long distance relationship, ensure that you prioritize talking to them as much as you can and whenever you can. If you can’t adjust to the time difference and find it difficult to reschedule your important work for another time, you should really be asking yourself whether this relationship will work or not.

2.      Nothing Beats Meeting In Person:

Again, something that can’t be stressed enough. Make every possible effort for a physical meet up as there is nothing more comforting than that. Even if that means being with them for a few hours, make it happen.

3.      Don’t Cheat On Them:

Isn’t that an unwritten rule? Cheating is never acceptable in a long distance relationship. You may think you might get away with a brief fling without your partner finding out about it but trust us, they will. ‘When’ we don’t know; ‘how’, we don’t know either but they will.

4.      Master The Art Of Listening:

To be in a long distance relationship, you have to be a patient listener. There will be times when you will have to calm down the other person when they talk about their frustration and fears. You need to have the nerves to accept when you are wrong and when you have disappointed your partner. Verbal communication is the only thing between you guys; so, there will be a lot of talking involved. remember; with talking, comes listening.

5.      Talk About Mutual Interests:

Instead of pointing fingers at the differences between you two, it is best to play your part in making it an environment of wellbeing where you two talk more about the things you like and less about the things you don’t. Talk about common interests, be it a movie, a book or a hobby.

6.      Don’t Let Silence Come In Between:

Don’t stonewall your partner just because they are asking you something that you don’t feel like answering. Don’t use silence as your escape route. Hanging up or refusing to pick up a call may seem the easier way out but it will only make your partner more uncertain, frustrated, mad and insecure. Silence is a silent way of telling them that you have something to hide, which is not the best impression to give them.

7.      Set Some Ground Rules Together:

The best way to avoid conflict and heartache in the longer run is to set some ground rules about what is acceptable and what isn’t, what is considered cheating and what is allowed, what would be regarded as jealousy and what is concern, what are the expectations you have from them and what can they expect from you in return. Talking about such issues is important because they can become the reasons for a beautiful relationship to end.

8.      Show Your Complete Trust:

Long distance easily makes some feel insecure and jealous. It is very convenient to think that the reason they are not picking up your call is because they are hooking up with someone else. Don’t let such feelings get in the way your relationship. Show complete trust in your partner and don’t act overly-possessive unless you have to. It will only breed negativity and will end in pain for the both of you.

9.      Sext:

Physical contact is important for both the parties. Since sex is off the table in a long distance relationship, sexting is the closest you can be with them intimately while being away from them. Keep them wishing they were here to hold you in their arms by choosing the right words.

10.  Make The Most Of Your Time When Together:

When visiting, don’t take them to historical monuments or the latest bar that has opened in your town. They just want to spend quality time with you. Make the most of it by doing things that you both enjoy doing. Make the sex REALLY good so that they have something to look forward to the next time.

11.  Keep Surprising Them:

Keep sending some snail mail every now and then for them to find at their doorsteps, even if it includes a box of chocolates and a weird-looking sweater you sewed for them. The key is to remind them that they are always on your mind and in their heart, which both chocolates and a sweeter says well.

12.  Make Peace With The Weekends:

Weekends, if nothing, are going to be the toughest. You may be in a relationship with someone across the border but you have to understand that beyond you, they have a life. They have friends to party with and family to cook dinners for. Weekends are the perfect time for families and friends to get together. So, there is no denying the fact that they will be the hardest to handle. There will barely be any detailed communications unless both of you aren’t drunk enough to Skype. So, you have to be patient and don’t hold any “not giving me enough me” grudges in your heart.

The Secrets of Eye Contact – Revealed

The Secrets of Eye Contact – Revealed

Eye contact is the most powerful connection you can have with another human being is when your eyes meet. It may seem scary to allow yourself to be vulnerable, but if you practice eye contact techniques, your love connections will explode.

Eye contact tips:
Here’s an eye gazing exercise to show you how it’s done. Practice with a trusted friend first to get the hang of it

  • Begin by looking at your friend’s right or left eye only.
  • Then move your gaze to his other eye and do the same.
  • When that feels comfortable, gaze into both his eyes with both of yours.
  • The entire exercise should take two to three minute’s total.

 

After you’ve practiced on a friend, begin connecting with people you encounter in day-to-day interactions, such as servers, bank tellers, and clerks in grocery checkout lines. Make eye contact, and then maintain the connection while making light conversation. Make this a part of your everyday ritual, and you’ll get more comfortable with eye contact, and be ready when the time is right for the real romantic deal. Don’t get eye gazing confused with stalker eyes; it’s not a frozen stare; it’s a warm, sincere, and inviting gaze. With good eye contact you’re on your way to real authentic, face-to-face connections, some- thing that cyber connections just can’t accomplish.

Historically, women are better at holding eye contact than men; but with practice, men can also master eye gazing. Men who make a higher level of eye contact are perceived as:

  • More powerful
  • Attentive
  • Likable and more attractive
  • Warm and personable
  • Competent and confident
  • Trustworthy, sincere, and honest
  • Professionally and emotionally stable

 

Men who make less eye contact are perceived to be:

  • Distrustful
  • Suspicious
  • Lacking confidence in what they’re saying
  • Impersonal
  • Uninterested
  • Inattentive

About Body Language Expert Susan Constantine
Susan is a prime-time contributor as seen on CNN, HLN, ABC, CBS, MSNBC, HLN, and TruTV. She has been featured numerous times in national trade journals, magazines, newspapers, television, and film documentaries in the U.S. and Japan, and has a role in the national film “Be Natural,” produced by Robert Redford and narrated by Jodi Foster, coming out in late 2013.

New Marriage Agency NoBordersForLove.com Helps U.S. Men Connect with and Visit Potential Life Partners in Ukraine

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New Marriage Agency NoBordersForLove.com Helps U.S. Men Connect with and Visit Potential Life Partners in Ukraine

Sophisticated, caring and commitment-minded American men who are frustrated with the conventional local  dating scene, and turned off by dubious international websites that are a waste of time at best and outright fraudulent at worst, can now potentially find their better half on the other side of the world with the assistance of NoBordersForLove.com: a new marriage agency that facilitates successful relationships with commitment-minded women born, raised and living in Ukraine.

Unlike many other websites that are riddled with fake profiles and actually make meeting the girls on the site difficult, or agencies  that simply take large groups of men to meet to “girls off the street”, NoBordersForLove.com takes a totally difference approach. Our service starts with building the profile of the women you are looking for, and continues all the way to introducing you to her in person in Ukraine.

NoBordersForLove.com is the only full service International matchmaker based in United States that uses a proprietary 5-phase process to ensure that clients are safe, secure, and have the best chance of finding a successful match and lasting life partner in Ukraine.

 

  • Phase 1: Interview-  The interview starts with introducing clients to the rich and multi-faceted Ukrainian culture, and why Ukrainian women are often appealing to marriage-minded men with traditional family values. Ukrainian women are raised to put family first, and often look for deeper qualities in men than many American women. The interview continues with an assessment of each client to identify their unique goals, hopes and expectations. Furthermore, NoBordersForLove.com only accepts men that the company knows it will be able to help.
  • Phase 2: Match Profile. The client then works with NoBordersForLove.com’s matchmakers to develop a set of preferences for his ideal match (usually between 25 and 100), which covers everything from basic likes and dislikes, to categorical “deal-breakers.”
  • Phase 3: Search and Screening. Once the match profile is created, NoBordersForLove.com and its partner matchmakers from local agencies in Ukraine conduct comprehensive searches to identify women that meet each client’s unique match preferences. In some cases NoBordersForLove.com, places personal ads for clients in local newspapers, magazines and Social Media. Potential matches are personally interviewed and screened by local matchmakers, and each woman provided with a complete profile of the client.
  • Phase 4: Selection and Communication. The client is presented with comprehensive profiles of potential matches which have expressed interest in communication. The client can communicate with one or all the matches. TheNoBordersForLove.com then arranges video calls, where the couple can see and hear each other. If there a mutual interest then communication will continue through additional video calls, and in some cases, letters and online chat.
  • Phase 5: Travel and Dates in Ukraine.  When the couple is ready to meet, com makes all the necessary travel arrangements and escorts the client to Ukraine. Trips typically last about 10 days but the client can say longer if wishes.  While in Ukraine, each client goes on pre-arranged dates with one or more selected matches.

Throughout the process, clients can also get support from the company’s matchmakers, who are there to assist and provide advice.  They can also enjoy the peace of mind in knowing that because of the in-person connection aspect of the service, there is less risk of encountering fake or misleading women.

“For many busy middle-aged men, finding a soul mate and life partner is immensely challenging,” commented David Galler, the founder of NoBordersForLove.com, and an Atlanta, Georgia-based attorney at Galler Law, LLC. “I was thrust back into the dating scene after two decades of marriage, and found the experience disorienting and frustrating. I knew there had to be a better way than singles bars and dubious websites, and that journey ultimately took me to Ukraine, where I found my better half. But while men spent thousands of dollars on international websites, most men came home from Ukraine broke and alone.

I wanted to use my experiences to help other people seek true love and happiness, while making sure they had a safe, culturally-rich and stress-free experience. That was how NoBordersForLove.com came to life, and it’s already revolutionizing the marriage agency industry. Other websites and agencies just make promises, but we’re really bringing people together — and my personal story is living proof.”

For additional information, including several profile photos, visit http://nobordersforlove.com. For all other details including interview requests and media inquiries, email David Galler at

nobordersforlove@gmail.com

Essentials of a Good Online Dating Profile

Online dating is similar to regular dating minus the meet-up. Everything other than that is quite alike. When you are on a date with someone, you try to look your best, be on your best behavior, flirt a little and make sure that by the end of the night, you are kissed goodnight at your doorstep.

An online dating profile is not so different. It is the first introduction a potential partner has of you. With carefully chosen words, you are nothing more than marketing yourself to the opposite gender, hoping for a spark. The only difference, however, is that when you are on a date. You can easily fix a faux pas. On online dating, on the other hand, you can’t do so if you don’t realize where the core issues lie.

When setting up an online dating profile, think of it like going on a date. Think of all the things you would want a potential person to know about you the first time you meet them. Once you have identified them, incorporate them into your online profile. Still need more assistance? Read on to find out what we are talking about.

  1. Start with a Sensible Username:

It is true that we humans are visual creatures. We assess everyone based on how they look. It is undeniably true when it comes to online dating but that is not the only thing that sparks anyone’s interest. A sensible username, that isn’t wonderman123 or muscle007 and something more creative than that, is another thing that attracts women in particular. When it comes to online dating profiles, a username is the second thing one looks at after your picture. So, make sure it isn’t an instant turnoff.

  1. Scan-able:

No one likes to go through blocks of writing. Keeping it concise and exciting is another smart way to ensure that your profile is not only visited but is also given a read. Try to use as little words as possible to maximize your chances of being chosen.

  1. Less on the Bragging:

Ask yourself, “Do you like that stock broker at your friend’s party who never shuts up about himself?” You probably don’t. No one does. Bragging too much on your online dating profile is another BIG turnoff and makes you a douche-bag and nothing else. No one wants to be with a person who is self-centered, self-obsessed and thinks of themselves as higher because that is exactly what you are putting out for the world to see and judge if you aren’t careful.

  1. Add Humor:

Humor is a guaranteed way to get someone’s attention. Ask any woman and the first 3 qualities that they look for in a man will include a good sense of humor. Bring creativity to your profile by backing your statements with humor. Include statements like “Base jumping is your thing if the ground is not more than 3 feet high” or that “I am a big fan of the movie dirty dancing because that is all I know how to do.” Even if the potential candidate wasn’t sure about you from your profile picture, they will definitely be interested to spark a conversation with a man who has a great sense of humor.

  1. Avoid Spelling Mistakes:

One of the biggest pet peeves women have is spelling mistakes. Yes, they can be grammar Nazis too. When creating an online profile, even if you are sure there aren’t any mistakes whatsoever, copy pasting it on Word won’t hurt? Any mistakes that may have been overlooked will be highlighted and corrected before putting up the text. Nothing wrong with that, is there?

  1. Appear Less Demanding:

Let’s get one thing straight; people who are looking for online dates have had past relationships that didn’t turn out too well. One of the most common reasons is asking too much in a relationship from the next person. If you include demands like, ‘must be a ‘golfer like me’, ‘love to go swimming with me’ or ‘be available any time of the day’, you are just offering them the thing they ran away from initially. So, like we established earlier, choosing the right words is essential.

  1. Be Yourself and Oh, Honest:

This point can’t be stressed enough. Lying about things that will eventually be out in the open has no benefit to you or the person you are dating. What’s the point of making statements like, ‘I have traveled half the world’ just to impress someone when you haven’t even left your state for months? Even if you get a dozen women to talk to you, this is not the kind of thing you can hide for long. Why go through all that trouble when you can come clean in the first place? Don’t try to be someone you are not. That way, not only will you be saving your time, but also of others.

Let us know if these were of any help. Need further assistance? Don’t forget to visit our official blog.

Getting Back In the Game: Online Dating After Divorce

1It is quite understandable that after a failed marriage, whatever the cause of it, most people find it hard to start from scratch again. They have obviously learned a handful of lessons from their marriage and want to desist from making them again. However, even then, getting back in the game requires a lot of effort and mostly on the guy’s part. To them, starting all over again means meeting new people, going on dates, establishing a connection and letting go of the past. Being a recently divorced person, it only makes things more difficult. The consequence: instead of finding physical dates, they resort to online dating. Reason being; it is less time consuming and doesn’t involve wasting time on people who aren’t looking for a serious relationship. If it clicks, it clicks; if it doesn’t, you move on without having to carry any emotional baggage.

But that too doesn’t come undemanding. Online dating after divorce can be pretty hard if you aren’t sure what you are looking for or should expect of a potential partner. Therefore, to get back in the game smoothly and let fate be on your side, it is essential that you keep these very basic yet important things in mind.

  • Choose A Reputable Site To Begin With: When setting up online profiles, consider a website that seems trustworthy and free of spam. Read online reviews about how a particular site has helped people look for partners and do some research on your end. Relying on a quality website might cost you more but the chances of finding the right partner do increase. If you are ready to get back in the game, why waste your time and energy on people who are just looking for a fling and nothing serious? The thing with reputable sites is that they scrutinize every profile thoroughly by conducting proper background checks to ensure that no scam or fake profiles are being set up.
  • Consider International Dating: This advice may seem out of the blue but it has actually worked for thousands of people. International dating allows you to meet new people, explore their cultures and might even get you off the couch to meet a potential partner in person if things go as planned. Sites like noborderforlove.com allow American men to meet Ukrainian and Russian women who are looking for true love, making it easier for them to interact and learn about each other through interpreters.
  • Date When You Think It’s Time to Date: Just because a bunch of your friends have been pushing you by saying, “it’s time you are ready to go out and date again”, it’s best to go with your own gut. No one but you knows how you are feeling or what you have gone through. Trusting someone else’s word on a matter so grave isn’t the wisest choice to make. Think about it for a second; if the thought of being in a relationship again terrifies you, then you are not ready. No point in wasting your and someone else’s time. However, if the same thought excites you, you are all set to take the stage.
  • Come Clean About Your Previous Relationship In Your Profile: Take your time when setting up your profile, be it on any site. Abstain from saying too much or giving away very little as both the conditions might not make you a standout candidate. The most important thing is to come clean about why you want to date.
  • Don’t Mention Your Ex-Wife: The whole point of dating is to start over. So, mentioning your ex-wife when with a potential candidate doesn’t sound like an ideal ice-breaker. It may seem tempting to talk about something that is very recent and life-changing but the other person might not feel so. The only vibe one may get is that you are looking for a rebound relationship and not an actual relationship. So, try to keep the ex-wife talk to a minimum. No one wants to be your pity date, so don’t make them feel like one.
  • Don’t Give Away Your Personal Details: Online dating to a divorced man is different than what it is for a single unmarried man. They understand relationships slightly better than the ones who haven’t been married but since they had been married, even if for a shorter period, they have been out of the online dating scene, which is a disadvantage. They are easier to prey on as they are wounded and hurt. They trust what they are told and appreciate the attention they are getting, without even realizing that their vulnerability is what makes them the perfect candidate for a scam. Therefore, it is always advised never to lend your personal details like phone number, email or home address to someone unless you have been talking to them for some time.
  • Give Your Relationship Some Time: It is not a secret that both of you are mature and must have had past relationships. If you are expecting magical sparks to light between the two of you, you are keeping your expectations high. Establishing a solid chemistry may take time. The first online session might not go well but to base the future on that and reject a potential partner seems childish. Every relationship requires time and effort. Who knows; the woman you talked to had a bad day at the office and didn’t really feel like talking much. Don’t ditch someone based on the first interaction. You too are damaged so it is best to allow the other person to open up and understand you better.

Hoping these tips come in handy when you are trying to set up your online dating profile. Remember, it all begins with choosing the right website to set up an account on.

Online dating

Dating: There are endless possibilities when it comes to dating today. You have the option of online dating, going through a traditional match making company or looking into and international marriage service.  The process has become streamlined with the use of the internet, albeit a lot more confusing. You now have a  myriad of choices. It is easy to become overwhelmed with all the options that are offered today and we are here to help you weed through them.

Online dating is a popular option. A person typically seeks this option when they have trouble meeting someone in their social circle. On line dating gives you a chance to put yourself out there without feeling too vulnerable. It is great for those who are looking to meet someone quickly. However, it does not guarantee that the person you meet is going to be the same person you were talking to online. Fraud and deception is extremely common with online dating. Many people post fake profile pictures, lie about their employment or where they live. It is impossible to know if you are truly meeting a genuine person.

This would off line agencies such as NoBordersforlove.com have become more popular.

Offline dating agencies give you the advantages of dating outside your social circle but add a great deal more support.  At NoBordersforlove.com, and members are personally interviewed, and screened.

Dates are arranged based on factors far beyond a simple profile and you provided with guidance throughout the process.

 

www.nobordersforlove.com

Dating after divorce

Dating, Divorce : If you’re divorced, or have ended a long-term relationship, well-meaning relatives and friends may encourage you to start dating again soon. But how will you know when you’re ready for a new relationship?

“This wildly varies from person to person,” says Judith Sills, PhD, a Philadelphia-based psychologist and author of Getting Naked AgainD ating, Romance, Sexng, and Love When You’ve Been Divorced, Widowed, Dumped, or Distracted. “Everyone ends a relationship by grieving the emotional investment. For some people, that happens before they move out. Others are still emotionally married after the divorce is final.”

Dena Roché started dating while waiting for her divorce papers to come through.

“It helped, because I got to see what ‘normal’ looked like,” Roché says. “I also saw that my ex wasn’t the only guy who would want to be with me. It bolstered my confidence for dating.”

Claudia Barnett needed some alone time to heal before seeking a new relationship.

 Your marriage has died; you need to grieve that loss,” Barnett says. “To move forward, I had to be whole emotionally, financially, mentally, and spiritually. After I accomplished some set goals, I knew it was time.”

Here’s what experts say you should consider before dating:

Some people are ready to date after 2 months; others may need years. Don’t rush. It’s important to experience the emotions associated with divorce.

Give yourself “a little time to think, a little time to grieve, a little opportunity to find someone else,” Sills says.

The ex factor

If you’re still thinking about what your ex is doing or whom he’s dating, you’re too distracted to begin a healthy relationship.

“Some people date and even marry to try to prove something to an ex,” says Edward M. Tauber, PhD, a California-based divorce counselor and co-author of Find the Right One After Divorce. “You wouldn’t date somebody who’s still tangled up with an ex emotionally. Why offer that to somebody else?”

Are you open to new experiences?

If you were in a committed relationship for a long time, the idea of beginning a new romance may seem scary. If you’ve recently tried other activities that bring you out of your comfort zone, you could be ready to date.

“Have you done something that’s an affirmation of yourself and your life — made a new friend, taken up a new sport, gotten a haircut?” Sills asks. “You open your heart to new relationships when you’re resilient enough to endure the minuses of dating to get the pluses.

Accept yourself as an individual

Your identity has nothing to do with your dating status. Rather than jumping into a new relationship to avoid being alone, give yourself a chance to explore life on your own terms.

“You can’t heal unless you’re on your own,” Tauber says. “You need to find single friends to have a social life with.”

Things have changed since the last time you were dating

Not only have you changed since you were last single, but so have your social life, circle of friends, and routines. You might meet a new partner through a friend or by clicking with a mysterious stranger — but you may also want to consider online dating.

“The advantage is you have a pool of people who are looking, like you are,” Sills says. “When you drop off the kids at school, there might be a single person there, but you don’t know them.”

Dating is an adult decision

Some single parents don’t date because they’re worried about the effect it may have on their children. You don’t let your children make other decisions for you, so don’t let them keep you from dating if that’s something you want to do.

But be careful.

“Do a very slow introduction of a new partner,” Sills says. “It should be a serious person with the potential of a long-term relationship who comes to dinner or the zoo as mom or dad’s friend.”

Go by your feelings, not the calendar.

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Do Ukrainian Women Want A Male Equivalent Of A Unicorn?

 

Ukrainian women, online dating. Science has failed when it comes to finding how the mind of a woman works. No one can really predict what they want; even they can’t so how do they expect us to, the men to figure out what they want on our own when we can barely make up our minds whether to order in or go out with friends.

Ukrainian women, like many other demographics in the world, are in larger quantity than males (about 85/100), which makes it slightly difficult for them to find mates.  However, these statistics have nothing to do with the fact that just because they don’t have a choice, they would settle for the first man they lay their eyes upon.

In order to understand whether this statement is true or just the gibber jabber from a woman who herself had hard luck finding the man of her choice, we need to understand what a unicorn is to them.

A unicorn, by definition, is a mythical creature, one that is only heard about but never actually seen. We all know it exists but none us have ever encountered one. So to start off, they are looking for men who are unique and have a distinctive set of qualities to offer that set them apart from the rest.

Secondly, unicorns are not found in native lands and are usually imagined to live far off in the wild. This makes international dating a possibility they are looking forward to or are willing to consider.

If they find the right one, they are to be lavished with care, love and affection, which identifies that they are open to the idea of true love and willing to give their everything if they encounter the right man.

Ukrainian women also understand that some of them like to be skittish and the thought of being captured unsettles them. But at the same time, with the right companion, they are happy to settle down and devote themselves to their happiness. This marks a very distinguishable feature if the statement is true. Most men find it difficult to give up their freedom and fear a relationship. If the statement is true, Ukrainian women are the perfect candidate to settle down with as they understand you and your need for space but at the same time, they make you fall in love with them alone and eventually, you give in to the passionate love and devotion.

Given the above discussed information clarity, it wouldn’t be wrong to say that what Ukrainian women are looking for, is indeed, a unicorn. They are looking for men who will devotedly be loyal to them, are dependable and loveable. Their ideals are very simple and yet, very unique to begin with. If you are a unicorn like male, www.nobordersforlove.com is an excellent online platform for you to interact with such beautiful-minded women of Ukraine. If a common language is the issue, the site has online interpreters who help you make your interactions easier.

 

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New Marriage Agency, nobordersforlove.com, set for American men looking for love and matches in Ukraine

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For Immediate Release- September  2016

 

New Marriage Agency, nobordersforlove.com, set for American men looking for love and matches in Ukraine. For many people, looking for the best life partner seems to be one of the hardest things to do nowadays.  Complications between relationships are becoming prevalent, more people would rather spend their time alone, and a good love life might seem impossible to find.  This leads to the launch of a new marriage agency, nobordersforlove.com. The new dating agency is dedicated to single men looking for love and matches in Ukraine.

The company is committed in assisting single American men to find their better half with Ukrainian women. No Borders for Love understands how hard it is for most singles to look for love as their jobs and other life circumstances leave them little time for socializing.

The dating site gives single men a chance to get their love life back on track with women who are born and raised in Ukraine. The site has privacy features that makes it secure and allows single men the time to get to know their potential partner before they meet physically. One of the best things about the site is they value the safety of every member and there is a detailed data validation. The new agency is only interested in real members who seek true love. No fake profiles or ringer accounts are allowed on the site.

The agency scrutinizes their comprehensive database of women from Ukraine and matches them with their clients. This makes the compatibility more discernible and the success for a relationship much more realistic.  No Borders for Love aims to find the best match for its clients and all private and identifiable data entered by members are intensely encrypted to ensure security. The site also has zero scam tolerance and eliminates fraud or deception.

Also, the site knows that language can be a barrier to the relationship. So the site can provide an interpreter for those who find it hard to communicate in either language. Language barriers will never be a problem with the new dating site. There are also counselors available to assist its clients with any problems that may arise with the site or with any member.  This guarantees the safety of its members and the welfare of each and every one is looked after.

Finally, the new agency also offers organization of trips and dates when the relationship has settled, The agency escorts its American users when they travel to Ukraine and meet their new love, This is something unique that is offered in the dating site and not found in any other online marriage networks.

Nobordersforlove.com is out to revolutionize the way we seek true love and happiness. Men who find it hard to seek love will get a chance to try their luck with women from the other end of the world. The site is out to help singles have a rich cultural experience and at the same time find someone who can be their better half.

www.nobordersforlove.com

Contact Information:

Address:

875 Old Roswell Rd Roswell, Georgia 30076

 

Phone:

+404- 835-2911

A message from Founder David Galler- International Dating

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International Dating  I am a native Georgian. I have practiced law in this state for almost thirty years; the last thing I even considered was providing dating help for men.

But when I suddenly became single after I   was divorced after a twenty-year marriage, I had to learn about dating again.   I spoke with lots of agencies, tried lots of online services, but each time there a major problem.

I made a lot mistakes and lost a lot of money, but in the end, I found out some things that can help men like me. Now I am engaged to one the most beautiful girls I have even seen.

This year I have taken a total of six men, all have girlfriends.  So No Borders for Love.com was born.

Call at 404-825-5540 to learn more.

We were different because instead of you wasting hours and hundreds even thousands of dollars on so-called communication websites, I have the girls you looking for and present you with verified profiles.

We arrange video Skypes calls so you and sees and hear her. If you interested calls continue to help build your relationship. Your communication with one girl or many the choice is yours.

When you are ready, we take you to Ukraine, and one of staff introduces you to the girl of our dreams.    No online scams. No traveling with fifty other men. No meat market socials.  Only real dates with girls you have already communicated with by Skype or letters.

Online dating sites

The problems with dating sites other the lies and the fake photos is they encourages those online to continue to play the field indefinitely.

 

  1. 10% percent of all online users leave in the first three months.
  2. One-third of people who use these sites have NEVER gone on a date with someone they met through the sites.
  3. Only 5% of Americans who are in a marriage or committed relationship say they met their significant

Other on line.

  1. Research suggests that so-called “matching algorithms” used by E-Harmony and other sites are only negligibly better at matching people than RANDOM CHANCE.
  2. By 48, Men have twice as many online pursuers as Women.
  3. 53% Percent of people online report they dated more than one person simultaneously.
  4. 10% Percent of those currently using online dating are

Registered sex offenders.

Dating agencies/ Matchmakers

Just check the reviews, most have very low ratings. They mostly play the same game. You first meet with attractive women who basically “pose” as a match Maker. In fact, she commissions sales person.

After she spends hours going through you past relationships, she promises she can help, just sign up. Chances are you have little or no contact with her again.

International Dating sites

Good if you don’t mind pay anywhere from .80 to over $5.00 a minute to chat with girls that often have boyfriends.

International tours

The concept is to take up to fifty men at a time to a foreign country. The men attend up three “socials” that often come more for the door prizes than for men.   Starting a relationship with a girl a type of social that does not even speak English has been proven to be very ineffective.

www.nobordersforlove.com

RUSSIAN FEMALE SCAMMERS

RUSSIAN FEMALE SCAMMERS

Russian female scammersHow not to become a victim.

The problem is tha almost every Russian dating website has scammers. Scammers are people who become a member of a dating website, where they communicate with other users and then look for a chance how to get money out of them. To be correct, I should say that scammers can be of the both sexes, so there are plenty of them among the male population.

This why NO BORDERS FOR LOVE  is not an online dating site and why we screen both men and women.

A female scammer would post a handful of beautiful and professionally made photographs to draw attention of many male users. Suppose it is a young lady from Ukraine, aged 25, happy to correspond with the men who are much older than she. This is the first shot for you to be careful.

The scammer can be a polyglot, having a good command of many different languages, but this is not necessary at all. She may also write her messages using an online translation tool. Then, everything unfolds according to the prescribed scenario. A woman from Russia writes you beautiful letters and sends beautiful photographs, you fall in love and lose your head. There are Russian scammers who are very experienced and those who are not. The latter group can be easily identified. So what’s the difference?

An apparent scammer would not be wasting her time. From the very very first letter, they won’t beat about the bush and say directly they like you and they want to meet you. They take no pains to read your letters thoroughly, if at all, or they give some abstract replies not to the point and keep sending you beautiful pictures, waiting for the moment when you are completely in their hold. The scammer would then be looking for a pretext for you to send her money.

These may be different stories.

1.       My mother or child is sick, and so on. I desperately need money for medical care the sooner the better.

2.       I need money to buy a visa or ticket to travel to you.

3.       She’s got money but her bank cannot give them out to her at the moment and she needs to pay some amount in advance. You are asked for to send this small amount.

4.       Any other pretext for you to send her money.

Well, experienced Ukrainian women act more skillfully. The are good in multiple languages, give detail answers to your questions, do not fall in love with you in the blink of an eye, they are patient, never ask you for money first and wait when you will offer it yourself. How? You feel in love and offer to meet. The scammer agrees but says she does not have money to come to meet you. And then you say you’ll give her money. Here is a great danger. If this is the first time a Ukrainian girl got money from you, she’ll keep on being interested in you as long as you have no money left.

Consider, you are gonna send her some amount for a visa. Some time later, she’ll send you a proof, which is her passport with the visa open. The truth is that this a fake visa. Then, you send money for her to buy tickets and she presents you fake tickets she’s never bought. Then, the rendezvous may be postponed due to her mother’s unexpected illness, but she still gives your her promise to come up. You are waiting, send her more money and this will go on and on until you stop it yourself.

How to protect oneself from scammers?

We check profiles of all women, yet we cannot be aware of intentions of all Russian women. We cancel the accounts of Ukrainian girls if such suspicions are true, but we cannot simply block all and any of them. That is why our users are advised to exercise caution. The things that should get your attention:

1.       The age gap is too much. Those looking for young wives from Russia quite often become victims of scammers.

2.       Beautiful studio photography only and no amateur pictures.

3.       The girl is too quick to fall in love and writes you praiseful letters. In her first letters she calls you clever, handsome, and other flattery stuff.

4.       Reluctant to chat on Skype. Here it all depends on whose are those photos your girl has posted. If it is her, she is likely to speak to you via Skype.

5.       Requests to send her money under ANY pretext.

Hiring our service  does not mean you purchase a Ukrianian  woman from the Internet; but we can help you find girls that have the traits that interest you, and that have been screened. We provide detailed profiles, If you have interest we set a in an introductory skype , if you there continued interest you can continue the skype’s to get to know each other.  Depending on your plan you can select one to eight girls to meet in in Ukraine.  Once your ready we arrange all the dates, and travel, and take you to Ukrainian, Each night someone from our staff personally introduces you to your date.

Of course, you’ll have to pay the agency a fee for their services, but you’ll also have the guarantee that you won’t lose your money. Just remember, a marriage agency working with women from Russia and Ukraine can only ensure your woman coming to you, but it will never guarantee that she may become your future wife.

Most male users who have suffered from scammers actually felt like being cheated and still were sending money. Do not give in to emotions, be realistic and then you will succeed.

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Facts About Mail-Order Brides

maxresdefaultMost people think that Russian brides are desperate women who want nothing more than to marry a foreigner (preferably American) to get the hell out of Russia and start a new life. But in fact, this is almost always incorrect. Russia has a man shortage; there are roughly 8 men for every 10 women in a culture which is very marriage-oriented. Consequently, many Russian women are compelled to look outside of Russia for a husband. As one mail order bride company says: “[Russian Brides] feel as if you were one of the guys who would approach her at a bar: where she can say, “yes” if she likes you, and “thanks, but no, thanks” if she doesn’t.

The United States Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) reports that “…marriages arranged through [mail order bride] services would appear to have a lower divorce rate than the nation as a whole, fully 80 percent of these marriages having lasted over the years for which reports are available.” The USCIS also reports that  there are  4,000 to 6,000 marriages between U.S. men and foreign brides each year.”

At least two types of “international marriage agencies” exist. The first type sells female clients’ contact information and encourages men and women to correspond prior to meeting. The second type offers “group tours” for men who want to travel around a foreign country and meet up to a hundred women at social events organized by the agency. If an American male wishes to use the first type, they must supply mental health information and criminal history, and, if they do make a match, will eventually be required to meet the bride in person before she can obtain a US visa.

No Orders for love offers a third alternative.  Pre-arranged dates.

But before you start your search you must find a reputable agency,

On November 18, 2004, a federal jury in Baltimore, Maryland awarded Ukrainian mail-order bride Nataliya Fox $433,500 ($341,000 of which were punitive damages) against international marriage broker Encounters International and its Russian immigrant owner, Natasha Spivack  Spivack arranged Nataliya’s marriage to an American man with a history of violently abusing women and who, after being matched with Nataliya, abused her over the course of their marriage. The jury found the marriage broker guilty of fraud, unfair and deceptive trade practices, willful and wanton negligence, unauthorized appropriation of Ms. Fox’s name and likeness, and defamation. The jury found the mail order bride company (Natasha Spivak) liable for failing to tell Nataliya about a federal law that allows foreign nationals to escape abusive marriages without fear of automatic deportation, and for actively misleading her about her legal options. The jury also found EI (Natasha Spivak) liable for misrepresenting that it screened male clients when it did not; and publicizing Nataliya’s marriage to Mr. Fox as an EI “success” story, without her permission, even after she fled to a domestic violence shelter.

 

Matchmaking service

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Our Matchmaking service is for men who value their time and want to make sure they will be in contact only with high quality, sincere and honest women, and want guaranteed results.

We are different. Here’s Why

We take the time to really understand your unique needs and aspirations. Thus, we can plan your search to reach the best possible outcome and help you save time and money and have the peace of mind. This means you will have less stress and enjoy your love adventure more.

How can we guarantee the results

We only accept in the service the men we know we will be able to help. If we accept your application, we guarantee that we will find the woman you are looking for. The Match Making service was developed because of  numerous requests from men that seek to eliminate the possible pitfalls in their search for a Ukrainian wife.

1. Cultural differences, the inability to get complete information through long-distance contacts and the growing number of scams on the Internet, are the most often quoted reasons why finding a partner seems to be a daunting task.

2. Many men don’t want to pay a private investigator to check out every single woman they are in contact with.

3. The others don’t want to screen hundreds of responses and answer women who don’t meet their requirements or they are too busy to do it.

4. They seem to do all the right things, and their correspondence stops after a few letters and the women just disappear.

We understand that the process of finding the right person can be frustrating for men, but it is the same for women: we often receive letters from women who have been seeking a partner for 2, 3 even 4 years and they cannot seem to get it right.

All in all, finding your soul mate is not easy in normal life, and it would be unrealistic to expect that it would be easier to do on the Internet.

15 years ago there were less people on the Internet, it was only the ‘cre`me de la cre`me’ who could afford Internet access, and finding a partner on the Internet was a lot easier. One could do it by just being guided by the common sense and with a fair amount of luck. Scams did not exist, the agencies in the business could be counted on the fingers of one hand.Compared to what we have today, getting married to an honest, sincere Ukrainian woman was as simple as 1-2.

Unfortunately – Those days are gone forever – In fact there have never been so many Ukrainian women and so many western and European men that want to find a partner, but surprisingly, it is much more difficult for them to meet each other now, when the choice is so big!

What are the reasons for that ? Over the years the information about the possibility of meeting a woman from Eastern Europe has become common knowledge. Many men are buying addresses, and writing to women that have profiles with agencies. According to the data of local Ukrainian agencies, only 10% of those men will ever come to Ukraine to visit their Lady pen pals. So out of 20 men writing to a woman only 1 man will probably visit her. If she corresponds with 5 men (which is already quite a lot), it’s unlikely that even one of them will meet her in person.

Many young, beautiful women have told us that they feel men are not really interested in relationships, and just seem to write for the sake of writing. Women, in their turn, want to get acquainted with a man who is serious about meeting them and getting married.

How can they verify the man’s intentions ? Unfortunately, there is no way for them to do this. So if men can be reasonably concerned about scams, women are concerned about the honorable intentions of the men who are writing to them. This is where a matchmaking service can step in and make the difference.

THIS IS WHAT WE OFFER: A PERSONALIZED MATCHMAKING SERVICE.

Give us your requirements, and we will find your special woman for you:

1. We carefully select the women that meet your requirements, screen all the profiles, and personally contact successful candidates on your behalf to find out if there is a mutual interest.

2. We provide you with extensive information on each women (a complete resume) and many photos, so you can make an educated choice.

3. We will provide the means for women to write to you via email without them needing to pay for it.

4. If your letters need to be translated, we translate them for you.

5. When you decide to meet your potential candidate (or candidates) in person, we will help you to organize your visit (visa, accommodation, English speaking guide, driver with a car etc).* your security is our priority.

6. If your relationship is successful, and you decide to marry while in Ukraine, we will provide you with assistance in preparing documents for the marriage and with the marriage ceremony.

7. Unlimited support and consultations on any stage of your search.

Communication websites

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You have visited numerous communication websites advertising Russian and Ukrainian women seeking partners abroad . All those Communication websites list thousands profiles of pretty girls that dream to have a marriage and a family with a foreign man. …Or, do they really? If you are, like most other men, have limited knowledge of Ukraine, you would be reasonably concerned if all these websites were for real and if all these women were indeed seeking husbands.
  • Do those women really exist ?
  • How sincere are they in their intentions ?
  • Is she really a Doctor, Lawyer or an Engineer ?

The truth is, using conventional communication websites   ; You will be the one that has to answer all those questions.

Do you think you possess the knowledge and expertise to answer these Questions. Anyone who has tried searching for a Russian or Ukrainian wife on his own will agree it’s not a simple process.

1. YOU – Look through thousands of profiles and read them all trying to find the women who are compatible.

2. Purchase their addresses and write to them.

3. Weed out unsuitable candidates to make sure the interest is mutual.

4. Must organize meetings with them.

5. Must bring his fiancee into his country.

WARNING! Most men don’t get pass the first and second stage – Their search often ends before it actually started. The search takes too much of their time, the results are unpredictable and the whole process may be frustrating. Yes, there are thousands of men who searched for the love of their life on their own, and have found her in Ukraine. You can be one of them, too.

But for every man that was successful in his search there are hundreds that did not succeed. As with everything in life, the end result is not guaranteed – moreover, in such a delicate matter you cannot rely on pure luck or knowledge, nor is it a numbers game. Success in a search for a Ukrainian wife is a combination of many factors and if one is missing, the overall result can be negative.

 

 

Personal Romance Tour to Ukraine

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The perfect setting to meet your future wife.

Personal Romance Tour to Ukraine.

Our personal romance tour to Ukraine are tailor made to meet your individual needs.  In our years of experience we have found that men that partake in romance tours are more successful in an intimate setting. We have found that putting a bunch of men in a room with ten times the women just does not work. Yes, you guys feel great because every woman is there to see you, but the truth is, you could really be missing that pearl you’ve been looking for. So, we do it in a different way and this is how!

  • A Personal Romance Tour to the Ukraine is the most important step in finding your future Ukrainian or Russian wife. We build your personal tour schedule according to what you desire and the women you would like to meet. You can meet a single lady or several. The choice is yours. However, we do recommend keeping it to five women, so you have a chance to build strong relationships.
  • Keeping our tours small is important to us. We usually take no more than five men on a trip at a time. Consequently, we have found our male and female clients prefer this. We value our clients getting to know their matches in an intimate setting and have found this leads to a higher success rate.
  •  Our staff will be there to assist you in every aspect of your trip. We will arrange meetings, organize reservations, excursions and any other activities you may have in mind. Our goal is to make your trip  as stress free and fun as possible!
  •  We can also arrange a translator for you. I highly recommend this as it will ensure the meeting goes well and you can easily be understood. You don’t want to be sitting through dinner struggling with  conversation the whole time. The objective of the tour is to introduce you to as many women as possible in the best possible situation.  The personal romances  tours are intended to treat our ladies and gentlemen with respect and provide a more intimate setting. During your tour, our staff will schedule meetings for you at any time. However, keep in mind what your goal is.  Quality over quantity is more likely to end in a positive result.

A personal Romance Tour to Ukraine can be a life changing event for a man. Especially, for a man who has almost lost hope on finding  love. Please allow our company, No Borders for Love, to assist you in this process. I guarantee you will not regret it.

Russian Marriage Agency

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 Russian Marriage Agency

The mention of a  Russian Marriage Agency is sure to conjure up many different images in your mind. Mail order bride is usually a popular one. I’m here to inform you about a new Russian Marriage Agency, No Borders for Love. It is one of the most safe and effective agencies for men in the United States to meet Russian women. We pride ourselves on our customer service and attention to detail.

HOW DO WE WORK?

Our first step is to make sure we answer any questions you may have. We want you to feel completely comfortable during this process. At our Russian Marriage Agency, you will go through an extensive interview process. We then build a profile based on your interests, hobbies, and what you are looking for in a relationship. With your input, we will then begin researching our database to find the perfect matches for you.

Most men pick between two to five girls to converse with over the introduction period. You are welcome to skype with these women in the comfort of your home or within our office.  After several skypes you will  feel confident to choose the one (or two) ladies that you would like to meet. Typically, we don’t encourage meeting with more than three women. You do not want to stretch yourself too thin. Your goal is to build on what you started back home.

I HAVE SELECTED A MATCH. NOW WHAT?

A representative from the Russian Marriage Agency, No Borders for Love, will travel with a small group of men to Russia to meet the woman of their dreams. This is not an exaggeration! Russian women take great pride in their appearance and are groomed from a young age to be excellent care takers for their men. They are family oriented as well as traditional when it comes to gender roles within the family. In Russia, there are five times more men than women making it impossible for all the women to marry. This enables the Russian Marriage Agency, No Borders for Love, to provide dozens of options for their clients.

Once you arrive in Russia, you will meet individually with the women you have selected. Clearly, this gives you a better chance at building a stronger connection with your date. How many times can a man focus one hundred percent on his relationship for a ten day period while he is navigating his daily routine? He can’t. But enlisting the help of a Russian Marriage Agency will ensure that you can have this time to focus on yourself and your love life.

Trophy wife?

A real wife. Not a trophy wife.

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 Thinking she will be your trophy wife: These ladies are tough as nails. They have to deal with drunk husbands/boyfriends who think nothing about going out and finding a mistress, don’t want to support their family (so she goes out to work), and generally most of the decisions and hard choices fall to the ladies. She will show you her claws if she thinks you are using her just as a “trophy wife.” Find someone to be your lover, wife, and equal partner, not someone you can dominate and control. For most men, I would say that even if they tried it would not be possible to control a Russian or Ukrainian woman anyway—she is strong-willed and fiercely independent.

You are looking for a wife, not someone to just pass the time. Well, then again… Seriously, these are serious and honest women (for the most part) and they deserve the same respect. Besides, if you do not ask her questions to find out more about her, her family, dreams, goals, etc… she will sooner or later figure out that you are not serious. Then she will dump you, or just see what she can get out of you! If you are truly looking for a wife, you should be asking her all kinds of questions! Not only ask many different questions, but ask them several times in various ways, just to see if you get consistent answers (another good way to protect yourself from a scam).

Looking for trophy wife?

Go to millaire match. Want a real wife, marry a Ukrainian girl

 

Mistakes men make dating Russian girls

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1.Mistakes men make dating Russian girls

 Not doing your proper research: By this I mean finding an honest and reliable dating or marriage agency, finding out all you can about your woman, learning about the geography, history, culture and language of the country she is from. These are all crucial to your success. You need to find an honest service. Then you need to educate yourself on other ways of contacting your woman. This will continue to ensure that your agency is honest, and that you are indeed writing to a real woman! Without doing your research you are just placing your bets (paying your money) and taking your chances.

2.Mistakes men make dating Russian girls

 Sending her the wrong photos: You do not need to send her photos of your house, car or other prized possession. If you do, I guarantee you will attract the wrong type of woman. An honest woman from the ukraine is more concerned about your heart than she is about your possessions. If you focus on your money and things, she will probably assume you are a shallow and insecure person. Focusing on your possessions only seems to work on western women, the most shallow and insecure women in the world! This is not America, you do not need to impress these ladies with things! Show them your sensitive side, what you like to do, how you think and feel.

3. Mistakes men make dating Russian girls

Thinking she is just after a visa: Then again if you thought this way, would you really be interested in writing her in the first place? Unless you were just interested in a business relationship type of marriage. She wants love and respect, not a free ride to the west! Would you be interested in moving thousands of miles away from home, leaving all your family and friends, learning a new language, just to improve your standard of living? Neither does she. She does not want a savior, she wants a husband!

MISTAKES MEN MAKE DATING RUSSIAN WOMEN

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1  MISTAKES MEN MAKE  DATING RUSSIAN WOMEN

Sending woman money:This is a huge no-no. Any Ukrainian woman who asks you for money is just trying to scam you. She will either bleed you until you are dry (if she is very slick) or just disappear after a quick score (if you are lucky). An honest woman would not ask; she has too much pride. Besides, she has already lived for 20+ years without your “help.” Why does she need you now? A Russian woman does not even consider the two of you to be in a “real” relationship until you have met in person! Would you give money to a western women that you had just met? Would you ask her for money? Think about it. It is just not smart and sets you up for trouble (and makes the ladies think it is easy and encourages more of the same behavior)”

2 MISTAKES MEN MAKE  DATING RUSSIAN WOMEN

 Not being prepared to visit: You did know that in order to bring her over here as a fiancee, you must visit her, in her country? Yes, it is the only way she will be able to get a visa to come to any western or European country. For more details on the visa and immigration process consult your local immigration agency in your own country. Honestly, though, a ukrainian woman, if she is serious, will want to meet you. You must be ready and prepared to visit her at some point in the future. It has been my observation (by watching and talking with both western men and ukrainian women) that a woman will generally give you about 6 months to decide you will visit. Then a few more months for you to get yourself over there. Make her wait longer than this and she will think you are not serious and probably move on to someone she thinks is! Just be ready: emotionally, physically, and monetarily.

3  MISTAKES MEN MAKE  DATING RUSSIAN WOMEN

Falling in love with a photo:Do not place too much emphasis on her photo. At least not until you know more details about her and her photos. Perhaps they are old. I once had a woman tell me her photos were over 2 years old! Her hair color and style was changed and it looked like she had gained about 20 pounds! Know what? It was my fault, because I did not ask her! Generally, the women of Ukraine look even better in person than in their photos—and that is a huge compliment! But not always, and you do not marry a photo, you marry a real person. Get to know her, what she thinks, how she thinks, her dreams, desires, passions, hobbies, etc… Try to understand (as they say in Russia) her inner world.

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Why would a Ukrainian woman want me you ask?

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I often receive media requests about American men who date Ukrainian or Russian women.  Why do Ukrainian women strive to marry Americans?  A  TV researcher from the ABC production team wanted to know in preparing for her talk show one day.
I have been telling reporters my answer for 15 years. My first interview to Cosmopolitan was in 1999, but somehow it seems that the answer to this question is still not crystal clear, or maybe my version doesn’t fit the official interpretation. So, allow me to put it concisely once again, circa 2015.
Why Ukrainian, Russian, or post USSR women desire to marry foreign men
The short answer: Because they are indoctrinated that they NEED a husband to be happy, and they cannot find a husband at home.
The whole cultural notion in Russia, Ukraine, and Belarus is: A woman’s happiness is in her family. She is not supposed to feel fulfilled making a career or pursuing her creative passions, but only once she is married with children. Politically, this approach allows the male minority to keep the female majority under control, restricting respectable women’s interests to household duties and self-maintenance (keeping themselves looking beautiful for their husbands). Females are underrepresented in governing bodies, with male chauvinism being an officially acceptable social attitude.

Couple: Erik and Victoria (USA & Ukraine)

Single women are constantly told by people around them that they should find a husband. Even if they do not want one, they are relentlessly pointed out that their social value is low because they haven’t managed to snag a man.

• By the age of 22 a woman is considered deficient if she is not married.
• By the age of 25 a woman giving birth to her first child is considered “an old mother” in the official medical terms.
• By the age of 30 a woman is considered a spinster.

The cultural and social standard for women in Russia and Ukraine is to find a man to marry, and then bear children and take care of her family. A man is expected to provide for the family. Even if a woman is educated and has a great career, she feels deficient not having a husband, as she is living in a society that looks down upon unmarried women over a certain age. Women are taught that anything goes to get a husband, and many believe that they have to hide their intelligence, talents, and abilities, and try not to earn too much money, or they will not find a husband or won’t be able to keep one, because he will feel insecure if she is smarter or earns more money than him.

In a way, marriage to a foreigner is a step to a greater freedom, which allows a Russian or Ukrainian woman to escape this restrictive social structure and develop her abilities and talents, even though her primary motivation in seeking a partner abroad is to realize herself as a wife and a mother, and not to build a professional career.

How demographics contribute to the situation

Demographically, from about the age of 30 there are more women than men. Total males to females ratio is 86/100 in Russia and 85/100 in Ukraine. You don’t need to be an expert to see why it’s hard for a woman who hasn’t found a partner by the age of 30 to get married.

Couple: Damon and Vika (USA & Ukraine)
Early deaths in males are the major reason for significant demographic imbalances. At birth there are 106/100 males to females both in Russia and Ukraine. (See Ratio of males to females by country, Wikipedia)

One of the prevalent reasons of early deaths in men is alcohol abuse, causing fatal accidents and health issues. An average life expectancy is only 62 years for Russian males, and 63 years for Ukrainian males.
In comparison:
• in Australia life expectancy for males is 81 years, nearly 20 years or 30% longer
• in the USA males live on average 76 years, which is 14 years or 23% longer
• in UK a man is likely to reach the age of 79, 17 years or 27% longer
(See Life expectancy by country)

Compared to figures from 10 years ago, life expectancy in males decreased in both Russia and Ukraine, and the overall sex ratio imbalances increased. It’s not getting easier for Russian and Ukrainian women to fulfil their Destiny.

What marriage means for women from Russia and Ukraine

The reason why Slavic ladies seek to marry men from other countries is the same as for western females: to be together in sickness and health, love and cherish, care for each other. The preferred notion in Eastern Europe is still for a lifetime marriage, and divorce is considered a failure.
However, the meaning of marriage for a woman is not only partnership but also gathering a respectable social status. A married lady will value herself higher than her unmarried friends, because she managed to get a man to commit to her. An unmarried woman over 25 is looked down upon, as she was unable to find a man who would put a ring on her finger. In a way, women are brainwashed that it is their purpose in life to find a husband.

Couple: Jerad and Ekaterina (USA & Russia)
A woman commented on my Russian blog: “Everyone knows what the meaning of life is. For women it’s mostly their family and children, and who doesn’t have them, then it’s men and work. For men it‘s work and women. That‘s it. Simple and clear.”

Another lady wrote:
“I believe that the meaning of life is family. A woman should find a worthy husband and give birth to a child. And all her life she should look after her children… A woman is a woman for a reason, so that others love her and she is loved. And even though some may say it means the same, but that’s exactly how it is.”

Another young woman chimed in:
“The meaning of life, as I see it. To give birth to a child, to find a beloved man and live with him happily for the rest of my life.”

Why Russian and Ukrainian ladies don’t want to marry men from their own countries

They do. Russian and Ukrainian girls have relationships and marry local guys every day of the week. However, some women, due to reasons of personal nature (involvement in studies or career, high requirements, insecurities, poor communication skills etc.) are unable to find a man to get married. As they mature, the demographical profile of their age group changes, and women outnumber men, making it difficult for single females to find a partner for a committed relationship.

Couple: Simon and Tatsiana (Australia & Belarus)
Russian and Ukrainian women decide to join international dating sites only when they have run out of options at home. Very few people ever have a dream, “I only want to marry a foreigner.” They date at home, aren’t successful in finding a lasting relationship that could potentially lead to a marriage, and then they look around and try other options, which they believe could give them what they want — a good husband.
After reaching the age of 25 a single woman becomes rather desperate to get married. Many girls who hastily jumped into marriage at 18-20, get divorced within 1-5 years, and often left to bring up a child on their own. Father’s participation in kids’ upbringing is usually limited to paying alimonies and rare visits. Sharing custody is a foreign idea for Russians and Ukrainians, and children usually live with their mothers. A woman with a child is considered “damaged goods”, and has fewer chances of remarrying.

What makes foreigners attractive to Slavic ladies

The common notion to believe that Russian or Ukrainian women only marry western men to immigrate is totally wrong. If this was true, foreign men wouldn’t need to make several trips to Ukraine trying to find a bride; ladies would take any foreigner and wed on the spot. But it’s not so.
Truth is, living in a better country does make western men more attractive to Slavic ladies, but only because foreign guys have the traits that Ukrainian and Russian women value in their partners: fidelity, ability to provide for a family, a respectful attitude towards women. However, girls also have other requirements such as age difference, education, desire to have children in a marriage, and others.
The major difference here is the level of requirements. Just like with average salaries, what you consider basic in your country, may be “a dream come true” for someone in Ukraine or Russia.

For example:
• Australia’s minimum salary for casual employees is $16.87/hour, plus 9.5% pension fund contribution by the employer on top of that, effectively $18.47/hour.
• Ukraine’s government employees earn today $200/month. That’s less than the lowest paid Australian employee will earn in 3 days.

Couple: Martin and Elena (Canada & Russia)
Social differences:
• Most western men don’t cheat on their wives. Most Russian and Ukrainian men cheat on their wives regularly or from time to time. It’s a husband who never cheated on his wife who is extraordinary.
• A woman who takes care of the household without any help from her husband is rare in western countries, but it is considered quite normal in Russia and Ukraine.
• Most men in Russia and Ukraine abuse alcohol, which is one of primary causes of early deaths in males. While it’s a problem in other countries as well, the scale of it differs dramatically.
• Domestic violence is a huge issue in post-USSR countries. Only in Russia 14 thousand women die every year due to injuries inflicted by their partners or family members. Police prefer to stay away from family disputes, and there is no system of protection orders and quick actions on acts of domestic violence. Most Russian and Ukrainian women either suffered themselves from gender violence, or know someone who is in an abusive relationship. Cultural norms encourage controlling behaviours in men. For example, the vast majority or Russian and Ukrainian women see jealousy as a sign that their partners really love them, and believe that a man who wouldn’t take “No” for an answer is genuinely attracted to them.

If you think of living conditions and social norms for a woman in Russia/Ukraine, western women lived like this in 1950’s. As American and European women had fewer rights back then, Russian and Ukrainian women in today’s societies are brought up to bow to men, even though on paper they are equal.

Couple: Marcus and Oksana (USA & Russia)
Although people in Eastern European countries have all the modern gadgets, computers, mobile phones, unlimited Internet etc., most of them live in small apartments and use public transportation to get to work. The recent economic crisis where both Russian rouble and Ukrainian hryvnia lost 1/2 of their value, only made the situation worse. Especially, with price hikes in all sectors, and family incomes remaining the same. Current salaries of Ukrainian government employees are only $200-300/month.

In this situation, where a single woman’s biggest concern is to find a “worthy” husband, a candidate from a western country with a yearly income of $30,000 looks like a prince on a white horse.

• He can provide stability for a future family, which most Ukrainian candidates cannot.
• Less aggressive and more polite in general.
• He is ready to get married, while most local candidates prefer simply to live together.
• He doesn’t think she is too old if she is 25-30, and doesn’t see her children as a problem.
• He doesn’t abuse alcohol.

Is it any wonder he seems amazing to Russian and Ukrainian women, no matter how he looks? As long as he is of an appropriate age group, he is likely to be accepted.

Find Russian women

To find the right Russian woman you need to first be sure you are working with a legitimate agency and not one that will scam you. That alone can be a tiresome process! You also want to be sure you have the time and patience to invest in international dating and marriage. Finding the right Russian women takes time but will be well worth the wait! Lastly, relax and have fun! How often do we take time to focus on our love life?

BEWARE OF FAKE SITES

Some websites will claim to have a large selection of women. Unfortunately,  what they really have is a bunch of unavailable ladies on their site that they have copied and pasted from elsewhere. These sites will charge a ridiculous amount for phone calls and  letters. Sadly, this will only result in false hope on your part, because for the majority of the women, this is their 9-5 job!

PUT IN FOR THAT VACATION TIME AND LET IT GO!

Finding Russian women takes time.  You will need to be prepared to take time out of your work schedule, travel to Russia and meet these women face to face.   Repeated online conversations and phone calls is not going to solidify your relationship, or really let you know if she  is the woman for you. You also want to be sure you go into the process with an open mind. Be ready to try new adventures and do not settle for the first lady you meet.  There will be more than one lady that is likely to pique your interest. This is not the time or place to leave with regrets.

To find  the right Russian woman will be an “easy on the eyes” process. These women are stunning and place a high value on their appearance.  However, because they value themselves so highly,  they are very honest about the way they feel about their spouse. Finding Russian women who are loyal will not be difficult.  They see their spouse not only as their lover, but also their best friend. Their spouse is an extension of themselves and they go to great lengths to please them.

Finding Russian women to court and fall in love with requires you to put yourself out there. You will also need to polish up on your manners. Russian women are very traditional and respect and admire men who are the same way.  Bring them flowers, open the car door for them,  help them with their coat and you will be sure to score some brownie points.

 

Ukrainian Scammers- 4 practical ways to spot them

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Ukrainian Scammers

1. Only deal with a reputable agency. Any agency that will not allow you to talk directly with the Woman you are cyber-dating is a FRAUD. Do not send letters to be “translated.” Your letter is going to some fat man in Siberia. If you can’t get the Woman’s email address, phone #, Skype contact, etc., RUN, don’t walk, its a scam agency.

2. Even if you are talking to a Woman from a legitimate agency, there is a possibility that the Woman you are talking to is a scammer.

3. NEVER NEVER NEVER send money to a Woman you haven’t met or that you don’t trust (intimately). Russian and Ukrainian Women are proud. They don’t want your money. They won’t ask you for money. Any Woman that asks you for money or asks you to send money is a scammer. RUN, don’t walk away. This can include requests to pay bills, to send money for airline tickets etc. If you are dating an Eastern European (EE) Woman and you want to meet her in a 3rd city (say Prague), buy the airline ticket and have it issued in her name. A scammer doesn’t want an airline ticket, they want your money. If you buy the ticket yourself, she’ll either come or she won’t. If she doesn’t, shes a scammer.

4. Think with the big head, not the little one. I say this and still have have (regular) readers here emailing me telling me they got burned. Let me say this more bluntly. Think with your brain and not your penis. If the Woman can’t keep her hands off of you and likes to kiss you and hold your hands, that’s a good sign. If she always keeps a one meter distance between you and her, this is a good sign that she’s a scammer. Occasionally, step back from your communications with her and look at them, as if you were a third party person and ask yourself, does this pass the stink test? Have a trusted best friend or a brother look at a few emails or meet your Woman on a Skype call (“just to introduce my brother”) and ask them, “Do you believe that she is interested in me or do you think she is a scammer?”

If you have been dating a Ukrianian  Woman for 18 months (true story that was recently emailed to me) and you haven’t had sex with her, she’s probably a scammer. Europe is not puritanical America, Women do in fact have sex with their boyfriends. If you’re paying her bills, sending her money and she’s not having sex with you, its because she’s sleeping with her Ukrianian  Husband or Boyfriend. Don’t be this guy.

 

 

Scammed ? Men who go to Ukraine looking for a wife often fly home alone and broke

scammed Scammed ? Men who go to Ukraine looking for a wife often fly home alone and broke!

Ukraine’s internet romance industry is booming – despite the unrest. But after chatting online, travelling to Odessa and wooing women on flashy dates, most men fly home alone and far poorer. Are they unlucky in love, or have they been scammed?

These are trying times for Odessa. After the annexation of Crimea, pro-Russian forces are stirring tension in this Black Sea port, and there are weekly standoffs between demonstrators who want to be part of Ukraine and those who want closer ties to Russia. But for all the political and economic chaos that has engulfed Ukraine in the past three months, one industry is still thriving: the internet romance trade.

The economies of several Ukrainian cities are boosted by the surreal and disingenuous online bride business, and Odessa is the biggest hub. It does not take long for a visitor to the city to stumble upon an “international date” – there are legions of western men in town meeting with young women they have met online, usually with the conversation facilitated by a translator. At internet cafes and homes across the city, thousands of women spend hours each day chatting to prospective suitors online.

There is nothing like the prospect of economic hardship to facilitate intercontinental liaisons, and so, far from business drying up in recent months, the romance and “bride” trade is booming. If anything, there are now more western men planning trips to Odessa than there were last year, when I accompanied a “romance tour” to Ukraine for a magazine story. I spent a week in Odessa with 29 men, all of them hoping to find a wife during their trip. They were mainly Americans, but there were also Brits, an Italian and a Saudi on the tour.

I went with a company called Anastasia International, which is no grimy basement operation, but a huge company with a projected revenue last year of $140m (£84m). It has thousands of women in Ukraine and across the world on its books, available for chats and in-person meetings with lonely bachelors across the world looking for a wife.

As internet dating has gone mainstream over the past decade, Anastasia is attempting to rebrand what was once called the “mail-order bride” industry as something modern and progressive. This is no longer the preserve of seedy and exploitative men seeking vulnerable women from impoverished backgrounds to work as a longterm sex slave, the marketing suggests. This is “international dating”, a civilised way to find romance without borders.

Except that the branding is still somewhat disturbing. The men pay for every minute they chat online to a woman, something that it becomes clear is a dangerous part of the business model. The company claims on its website that finding a woman in Ukraine is like “dating a model, but with the values of your grandmother”. The men featured in testimonials are sick of western women, whom they insist have forgotten “family values”.

‘This is game time’

Armed with this information, I was fully expecting to spend a week being nauseated by odious men preying on vulnerable women, and there were certainly a few on the trip whose misogyny reached prize-winning levels. But the overall story was far more complex.

“This is game time and they’re blowing me off,” Todd told me, mystified, one day over breakfast. It took the 43-year-old bread-delivery man from Delaware several months of working overtime to be able to afford the tour to Ukraine; he often clocked seven night shifts a week in order to save the roughly $5,000 (£3,000) he paid to spend a week in Odessa, and hopefully find a wife.

Todd, who had not succeeded in finding his other half at home, had something of a compulsive side to his personality. He spent months methodically whittling down 1,500 possible brides on Anastasia’s site to two top candidates. He then spent thousands of hours and thousands of dollars chatting with them online. Things were going swimmingly with both women. He assumed that his trip to Odessa would involve picking the one he liked most and taking her back with him. But when he arrived, neither of them answered his calls.

While Todd’s expectations for what a Ukrainian bride might offer were patently unrealistic, it was troubling to watch him venture ever further down the path of disappointment. Many of the men on the tour were less sympathetic characters than Todd, but all of them were lonely. Some of them were disillusioned with dating scenes in the west, where women did not give them a look; others recovering from a divorce or the death of a spouse.

Another man I spent a lot of time with was Stephen, a 62-year-old from Texas, long-divorced, who was on his 11th trip to Ukraine with the desperate hope of finding a wife.

“I want a companion, because there are things I would like to do back home, but I don’t want to do them alone,” he told me. “I want to see the Grand Canyon, but I don’t want to see it on my own. I’m tired of having nobody to share my life with.”

Stephen ended up meeting a pianist named Elena on the tour. On date two she told him she thought he could be her soulmate. By the end of the week he was sure he had found his future life partner. It was an expensive week, with the dinners, taxis, and payment for a translator all adding up, but Stephen was delighted that he had found love.

But love in Odessa is not all it seems. Perhaps 10 years ago, the scenario had been what I imagined, with men swooping in, and women keen to swap the hard grind of poverty-stricken Ukraine for a new life in the US, even if it was a ramshackle house in a North Dakotan town or a sleepy midwestern farm, rather than a Manhattan penthouse or LA beachfront home.

Now, it seems, things are different. None of the men I became close to on my tour ended up in lasting relationships, and the majority appeared to fall victim to a number of sophisticated scams.

I left Stephen ready to propose, but two months later he told me by email that it had all unravelled. The woman let him know she needed more time before making a commitment, but suggested that he return to Odessa and continue their expensive platonic dates.

Todd did not even get to the date stage; in retrospect, perhaps a lucky escape. The women took their cut of cash for chatting with him, but did not answer his calls when he arrived. He later wrote to me: “It took me about a month to process what happened and get over it. I’ve decided to close that chapter in my life and move on. I am now concentrating on me and my life and to do things that make me a better person. And to pursue the other hopes and dreams that I have. Will I ever find my other half? One can only wonder. At least I can say I tried. If I die a bachelor, so be it.”

‘Emotional prostitution’
I was able to uncover exactly how the scams work due to a chance encounter with Alina, one of the women involved, who felt weighed down by her collusion in what she called “emotional prostitution”. She explained the whole sordid array of techniques, from a light impersonalised online-chatting version to a full-service chauffeur-driven platinum fraud, where men are rinsed of cash for a full week in Odessa, thinking they are cementing a lifelong relationship while actually they are being strung along on platonic dates that end with them dispatched to the airport with heavy hearts and empty wallets. Many of them come with ridiculous expectations, of course, but I am not sure that anyone deserves this treatment.

For the women as well, although hundreds of them make a living from the scams, it is not an easy psychological burden to bear. Alina was evidence of that, and 29-year-old Chris, the tour’s youngest member, found that when he confronted his date with accusations about the nature of the business, she burst into tears and said she felt awful, but needed the money to support her mother after her father had died. Other women were genuinely looking for a young and interesting partner and wanted to leave Ukraine, but spent hours chatting with elderly men in order to make money.

Anastasia International, while not directly colluding in the scams, runs a highly profitable business model that allows them to flourish. While real and lasting liaisons do occasionally form through the site, more often it only serves to increase the concentric circles of mistrust, disappointment and heartbreak for all involved. Anastasia insists that it weeds out scams whenever it finds them, and has banned some women from the site. It also says it will reimburse clients who fall victims to scams, and provides advice on how to avoid them.

Larry Cervantes, the company spokesman, wrote to me after the tour: “It’s true that some of these guys are spending money they don’t have. But guys go broke in the US chasing American women, as do Brits chasing Brits. So what’s the difference? Throughout history men have pursued the unattainable, and throughout history they’ve made fools of themselves. How is this any different?”

But the difference, of course, is that the company is making a huge profit from the men making fools of themselves, and while many women are making money out of the schemes too, it is not clear that it is beneficial to them in the longer term.

Far from ending the practice, the recent unrest in Ukraine has only enhanced it. Alina told me that her friends working in the business are expecting several American men to arrive in the coming days, while the less discreetly named sugardaddyforme.com says it has seen record numbers of Ukrainian women sign up in recent months. The new Ukrainian government has rather a lot on its plate, but ending the trade in emotional exploitation is something they should tackle sooner rather than later.

 

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Romance Trip to Kharkov , Ukraine Aug- 16-26.

Romance trip to Kharkov

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Dynamic, beautiful, and intelligent are adjectives that have often been used to describe the women of the Ukraine and Russia. If your search criteria contains the word “intelligent” or “educated” in addition to beautiful, then Kharkov, Ukraine, may well be your destination of choice. Approximately 20,000 students graduate yearly from this city’s higher education institutions; a very high percentage of these students are women: young, intelligent, beautiful women who are looking to make smart decisions for their lives, careers and future families. With this in mind, the Kharkov Romance Tour has been calculated to place you at the right time and place to discover the chemistry of love & romance – a surefire formula for success!

This one time capital, with a population of 2.5 million residents, is the second largest city in Ukraine, and the largest center of science and culture in the country. A unique Ukrainian college town, Kharkov is nestled in rolling hills and dales and invites you to enjoy strolling through its many parks and gardens, or take pleasure in its many museums, cultural centers and art galleries.

Looking for a city that has great bride potential, but has been somewhat overlooked until now? A city that is home to some of the most beautiful women in the Ukraine – women who are eager to find their life-mates? If so, then we urge you to strongly consider joining us for our  Romance Tour to Kharkov. One smart move deserves another and this may very well be the smart tour decision that will change your life forever!

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Basics of Travel Safety to Ukraine

Travel safety to Ukraine

Travel safety to Ukraine

The Basics of Travel Safety
1: When traveling to foreign countries it is a good idea to check the State department to see if there are any travel warnings for the country or the area that you are visiting. There you will find travel warnings and travel alerts, and you can even register with the State department so they can assist if there are any issues or problems

2: Do not wear expensive watches or jewelry. You may even want to downgrade your cell phone and not carry laptops or other devices with you out in the open.

3: Do not flash large amounts of money, keep a low profile.

4: Do not get overly intoxicated. Intoxicated tourists make for easy targets.

5: Try to stay in groups or even pairs with people that you know as much as possible. It is much more difficult to rob or harm a group than an individual.

6: Only used trusted transportation such as marked taxies, or people that you know and trust.

7: Be careful speaking to strangers, especially about politics or other touchy subjects. If someone approaches you that you do not know and trys to get you to do something that involves you going somewhere with them or money, or anything that you are not comfortable with, just pretend like you do not understand them and walk away. Do not be shy about it, and if you feel threatened just start making noise and again walk away.

8: Act like you always know where you are and where you are going, even if you get lost. It can be intimidating to be lost in a foreign country, especially if you do not speak the language, but you do not want to appear like a lost tourist, so continue walking until you can get help from a store owner or police or someone that you can safely approach.

What will I get with my initial deposit?
Your deposit guarantees your place on the tour of your choice.  If you forced to cancel for reasons beyond your control, all funds will be creditited toward another tour. The only exception is funds paid for non –refundable travel expenses.

How many pieces of luggage may I take and what size?
You may check one  pieces of luggage free of charge. We recommend that your carry-on bag contain one full change of dress clothing, your necessary toiletries and your computer or valuable camera items.
. 62″ total dimensions ( L + W + H ) with a total weight of 50 lbs.
. 55″ total dimensions ( L + W + H ) with a total weight o f50 lbs.
. 45″ total dimensions ( L + W + H ) with a total weight of 10 lbs.

How much spending money will I need?
We have found that most of our clients are very comfortable with a budget of between $1000 and $1,500.00. Some spend more than that and some will spend less, it really depends on your taste. Our host cities are all fairly large with attractions and outlets for a variety of tastes and income levels.
Are there other costs?
Other than normal spending money there will be very little in the way of expenses you will need to worry about. Your package includes continued daily guidance and assistance from our staff. You may have a very special request or need that could incur an additional cost. However, few of our clients encounter a need for this. Relatively minor additional expenses could include special transportation, interpreter, or gift services..
What paperwork will I need to travel?
You will need a passport which you can obtain locally. If you already possess a passport please be sure there is at least 6 months remaining on it from when you plan to enter another country.

Do I need additional health insurance?
You should check with you health care insurer and ask if your current policy will cover you outside the US. If not, you may want to purchase a rider policy to cover any emergency medical situations, which may occur.
Should I bring photos?
It may be a good idea to bring along personal and regional photographs. Photographs of yourself, friends, family, pets, home, cars and your recreational activities will certainly allow any viewer to have a much fuller understanding of who you are and what your particular geographic location affords for those residents living in the area.
What type of clothing will I need?
Be yourself and dress comfortably during most of your trip. Summer attire may be jeans, shorts, and trousers. Of course in the winter months you will want to dress appropriately. An umbrella is always a good item to pack as well. If you attend the ballet or opera, you may want to wear something a little more formal.
My schedule won’t allow me to go for the full duration of the tour. Can I make special arrangements?
Yes! If you have decided that you would like to experience our tour we will work with you in any way that we can to make it happen for you. We believe that you will find the staff to be the most personable and hard working group available. We also act as the agent for many of our clients who wish to go to our host cities on their own making necessary arrangements, setting up meetings and often saving them money because of our travel agent status.
I do not live in the United States, however, I would still like to attend the tour, can I meet there?
Currently we only work with American citizens that live in the united states.

What can I bring with me?
You are allowed to bring basically anything you like for personal use except illegal drugs and weapons. Video equipment, cameras, radios, even lap-top computers are OK. You can bring up to 250 cigarettes, although you will find them to be a great bargain in Russia and the Ukraine. If something of yours is confiscated for any reason, you can ask for a receipt and you may be able to claim it on the way out.

What small gifts should I bring for the ladies?
Today you may purchase almost anything in our host cities that you could purchase in any other major city. Most of the women do not have the money to purchase the extras. Our advice might be to take advantage of any personal connections or good deals available to you. This keeps the cost down for you and makes a nice gift. For example: One client had a woman friend who was a model. This model gave him clothing outfits, which she received from modeling but never really wore herself. Another client had access to very nice costume jewelry, this was a big hit. I do not know a woman in the world who does not like good perfume. Most and Ukrainian women seem to like European dark chocolate. We might also suggest you look for something produced or manufactured in your particular area of the United States, which you are proud of or think may make a nice gift.
What can I leave with?
You can take anything bought from a Western-style shop or department store, but save your receipts. Since 1990 the removal from the country of certain quantities of consumer goods such as caviar, tea, fabrics, some clothing, carpets, leather, photo equipment, precious metals and stones has been restricted.
What about money?
Your tour leader will go over the local currency and the exchange rates with you. There are legal exchange offices practically everywhere, including hotels, restaurants, boutiques, street front stores etc… You will be asked to fill out a currency statement when you enter the country. This statement is designed to prevent people from taking out more money then they brought in.

What about credit cards?
Visa, MasterCard/Eurocard and American Express are all widely accepted. If you have your credit card and pin number you may obtain cash from the many ATM’s now easily accessible in most cities. ATM’s will allow withdrawal of anyplace from $100 to $300 per use depending on the machine.

Travelers’ Cheques are not advised for the Ukraine as some banks take as long as one hour to cash. Once you get outside of the major cities Travelers’ Cheques can be more difficult to cash. American Express is the most widely recognized brand. All in all it is a good idea to bring a combination of cash and credit cards.

Clients continually tell us that they have been warned to not use their credit cards in the Ukraine due to card theft. We feel this to be unfounded..

If you want an additional safety barrier between you and your main account then do a little preplanning and open a special account specifically for your trip  Ukraine. Deposit a set amount of money in the account and notify the card issuer that you will be using the card from a foreign destination. This safety measure will prevent someone from accessing additional money you may have in your account .
How much are calls to the US from the hotel?
The rate per minute from the hotel to the US is approximately $5.99 or higher. The rates from the hotel to outlying areas are $ 2.99 per minute or higher, local calls from the hotel are about .15 or so per minute.. These rates are subject to change, thus we recommend checking with the hotel prior to making any long distance calls. Some hotels may block the use of AT&T calling cards from the rooms. We are unsure about the LCI or other long distance calling cards. We are of the impression that your long distance calling cards will work from the pay phones in the lobby. There is Direct Dialing to the rooms and with a call back card you can avoid expensive hotel long distance charges.
What about the electricity?
The electricity is 220 volts, 50 Hz AC. The sockets do require a Continental or European plug adapter with two round pins. American appliances need a 220V to 110V/100V converter.
Do they use the metric system?
Yes. The metric system is in use.

The Do’s & Don’ts of International Dating

international dating

What are the Do’s and  Don’ts of International Dating?
An international dating  and tour service is   not like your average online dating service.  First we take full control of the matching process. You are not left with an online database  and charged to simply find out if they the even have the basic characteristic  you looking for or are actually interested in communication with you

We also screen the girls more carefully than any other agency.

Next we provide translation for multiple formats of communication, multiple tours to Ukraine with real dates not socials.
Many men jump into international dating feet-first without doing the appropriate research. By exploring the available content online, you will be able to fully understand what is involved in international dating, besides the fun stuff. Even the romance, however, requires a bit of knowledge.

Like anything else you invest your time and money into, you will want to perform your best when international dating. In order to do that, you should know the basics about what to do and what you should never do. Here,  here is an outline of the most common DOs and DON’Ts of international dating.

Getting Started
DO: Do the research. The first step in the international dating process is usually exploring and joining a website. If you plan to get involved in international dating, be sure to explore and research your options thoroughly. Many companies and websites partake in fraudulent behavior and can cause major problems in your life. A high quality, legitimate website will have basic contact information in very easy-to-find locations, often on every page. You should always ignore a site that avoids posting its phone number, pricing, and address clearly. Transparency is key to a strong company, so avoid services that are unclear about their prices and contact information.

DO: Plan a tour. It’s quite important to plan where you are interested in visiting. When a woman sees that you are planning on visiting her area on a specific date in the future, she will be more inclined to speak with you. She will feel more confident that you will actually come to visit and have an opportunity to meet up in person. Many men get too involved in letter writing and never commit themselves enough to travel overseas. If you decide where you plan to you will probably receive more responses.

DO: Decide on critical factors. When you are exploring the available profiles, constantly keep your critical factors in mind. Before joining a site, think long and hard about the critical factors you will search for. For example, have your mind made up about your feelings on marriage, children, employment, and other major parts of your life. Even if that twenty-two year old looks like a model, she might not want kids. If you do want kids, there is really no reason to communicate with her in the first place. This leads to another important point: honesty. When corresponding with women online, you may feel the urge to lie a bit about yourself. Although men think this will increase their chances of meeting someone they love, it actually hurts them. If you lie about yourself, you will attract women who you are not compatible with; that’s a fact. You will be presenting yourself as a different kind of person and will therefore attract women who are not actually interested in you. This goes for anything you communicate about. From your feelings about love and relationships to your opinions about movies and music, you should always give honest answers to questions and respond naturally. Also, best honest about your physical appearance. Send “true to life” photographs and explain how you really look; if your communication eventually leads to a meeting, she will find out the truth eventually.

DON’T: Do not join an international dating service without researching it first. One of the most common mistakes men make is jumping into a dating service before knowing what it actually entails. Unfortunately, many international dating sites partake in fraudulent behavior and could harm you emotionally and financially. No matter what type of scams they are involved in, companies involved in dating scams will only bring you trouble. Before joining a site, also look for red flags that may suggest fraudulent activity. An example of a red flag would include the company keeping their phone number and office address off of their website.

DON’T: Do not reject an interesting woman because she does not speak English. Besides the fact that reputable international introduction services such  no borders for love .com offer translation services in both textual and auditory formats, you and the person you’re interested in have the ability to learn new languages yourselves. If you meet someone perfect and get to know them through a translation service, don’t hesitate to start learning her language. If you make an attempt to learn hers and she attempts to learn yours, you will have no problem communicating in the future. Learning a new language expands your horizons, makes you more accessible, and also makes you more intelligent. With so many different personalities in the world, it would be a shame to pass up your perfect fit because of a language barrier.

DON’T: Do not have unrealistic expectations. When you join an introduction service, you will not necessarily meet the love of your life in the first week. If you discover someone interesting right off the bat, that’s great, but don’t limit your search there. Take advantage of all the options and profiles your service offers you and meet tons of different people before settling down.
Communicating
DO: Remember that communication is key. If you do not communicate, you will never truly get to know somebody. Although we suggest keeping your options open to meet many different women on an international introduction tour, you should definitely get to know someone in a destination country where you plan to travel. By communicating consistently (without overdoing it!), your personalities and preferences will arise and interact. This way, you will get a feeling about whether or not there is chemistry between the two of you. You should attempt to communicate over the phone with someone if you have been messaging back and forth for a while. Getting to know their voice and the way they talk is important in understanding their manner and personality. Keep your options open and continue to browse around even if you meet someone you like. Expand and narrow your search, as you further understand what you like and dislike about the women you are meeting. The more you focus your search with honesty, the quicker you will find a compatible match for love.

DO: When communicating with the women, provide realistic expectations of them Don’t expect to approach this process any differently than you would a normal date or romantic situation. These women are just as interested in meeting someone great as you are. Instead of coming up with unrealistic expectations of the women you meet, be sure to differentiate between those that are realistic and those that are unrealistic. Determine your most important factors and be sure to search for those; for the other expectations that might not be as important, keep them in the back of your mind but don’t end a good relationship because of them.

DO: Give her time. Giving the women a lot of time to get to know you will enhance your chances of developing a strong relationship. Instead of pressuring a woman to like you, let her get to know you at her own pace. You can come off as desperate or even rude when pushing yourself into someone’s life. If you really like someone, try and get to know them without seeming too desperate for their attention. If you take your time, you will seem confident but open to communication.

DO: Enjoy yourself. Having fun and exploring all of your options is a major part of international dating’s beauty. While taking time to seriously find a partner for your life, you will also be able to have quite a bit of fun. Exploring an online dating service is exciting because you never know when you will scroll across the love of your life. The options will feel endless as you browse through thousands of people you have the ability to communicate with. The most important component to the whole process is having fun. If you aren’t enjoying yourself as you browse and communicate, you might come off as a negative person when writing letters or talking over the phone. Don’t forget that dating should be an enjoyable experience that makes you want to return

DON’T: Do not immediately dismiss a woman simply due to a difference in age. Even though a woman is older or younger than you does not mean she is not meant for you. Because people mature at different ages and grow with different experiences, a twenty-three year old woman might be perfect for a thirty-eight year old man. It all depends on the individual people within the situation. If you find yourself connecting with a beautiful young woman and your mind tells you it’s inappropriate or not functional, ignore it! Any two people can be meant for each other; age should not be a factor in love unless it is over a thirty or forty year gap.

DON’T:Do not, for any reason, offer to send money to a woman you meet on a dating service. Until you have met and known them for a decent period of time, you have no reason to trust them. Because online dating provides such an easy way for people to create new identities, you may not know whom you are actually talking to. It could be some guy telling you what you want to hear in order to make you send money over for a “plane ticket” or a “Visa.” Even if you really are talking to a beautiful woman, there is no reason you should trust her with your money. Again, DO NOT SEND OR GIVE AWAY YOUR MONEY FOR ANY REASON! This can seem like great way to make a girl like you, but it only brings a ton of risk into the equation and will make her like you for the wrong reasons anyway.

Traveling and Visiting.

DO: Look for a common ground when you meet someone new. In order to spark a conversation, discover something you have in common and try and get her to open up about it. The common ground could be anything from your views on marriage to your favorite musician. No matter what it is, you will be able to more comfortably converse with the person about a subject you know a lot about. This will also work for her, making her feel more comfortable with the subject matter. Through a common interest, you can get to better know each other’s mannerisms, opinions and personalities.

DO: Have confidence in your surroundings. Just because you are visiting another country doesn’t mean you have to sit back and let your date make all of the decisions. Do a little research beforehand, or talk to your travel service, and find some cool places to go on a date. When you get together, let her know what the plans are. This way, you can emit confidence in every way possible.

DO: Keep an eye out for the little things. For example, one of the most important aspects of communication within a date is body language. If you notice your date playing with her hair, subtly touching your arm or leg, and leaning in towards you, you can be pretty confident that she is interested in you. If she is very reserved in her movements, staying back in her chair, keeping her arms crossed, and not smiling, she is probably not very interested. Reading body language will not tell you definitively if she likes you are not, but it can definitely lead you in one direction or another. Remember that your own body language will affect things as well. Make sure you show interest with more than just your words by using your own form of body language.

DO: Have fun! Although we’ve already mentioned this, it’s worth touching upon again. Many men find themselves nervous and overwhelmed when entering this situation, but remember that it’s just another opportunity. You have nothing to lose, and the women who attend are just as interested in meeting you as you are in meeting them. Instead of thinking too much, try to relax and just enjoy the social environment. When you are meeting one woman for a date o, staying relaxed will help you to just be yourself. Listen carefully, ask questions, and feel free to express your true feelings. Think less about finding love and more about meeting new, interesting people. If you can just be yourself, you will present yourself accurately and will have a better chance of finding a compatible life-long partner.

DON’T: Do not ignore your gut feelings.. If you meet someone and have a gut feeling that the chemistry works, don’t just walk away because of some small detail you don’t like. Just because a woman does not follow a certain career path or have certain interests does not mean she isn’t the love of your life. On the contrary, having different interests will allow you and your partner to expand each other’s horizons over time. In other words, a gut feeling can be more than just a feeling sometimes. If you find yourself drawn to someone, explore the possibilities! You will have nothing to lose.

DON’T: Do not let your date control the meeting arrangements. Because you are the one in the foreign country, you are the one at risk. If you end up in a situation where your date brings along a bunch of friends or meets you in a place where she is more comfortable than you, there is a risk that you may end up alone and unsure of your surroundings. If you take control and designate locations for your date, you will be comfortable knowing your location and where things will be going. As a citizen in her home country, your date should be more than happy to enjoy the locations you’ve chosen. She will also be impressed that you have the confidence to make those decisions in an unfamiliar place.

DON’T: Avoid performing an “interview” when you meet a new woman. Even though you are enjoying the trip in order to meet women, you should not live through the mindset that they are there to please you and fill your requirements. Although it’s important to learn her views on critical factors like marriage, you don’t need to force that information out of them. Instead of drilling them with questions, focus on getting involved in a comfortable conversation. You should attempt to court the woman, not push them for answers. Don’t forget that you are attempting to spark interest; just because you know that all of these women are single and available doesn’t mean you will be successful by simply performing interview after interview. Show the woman you are interested in her personality and allow the conversation to flow naturally. Only time will tell if you are a match.

DON’T: Do not communicate through their translator. Language interpretation can be a huge part of the international dating experience, but knowing how to use it properly is half the battle. When utilizing a translator, you should always use an interpreter that you have chosen yourself. This way you will always know that the translations are word-for-word. This will also guarantee that the translator will act professionally, continuing with you until your date is over. If your date is friends with the interpreter, it can lead to an unfortunate and possibly lonely situation for you. Also try to use multiple interpreters throughout your meetings.

DON’T: Do not avoid one woman or another because of one certain detail. If you find a woman attractive and interesting, who cares if she is twenty years younger than you? If you are happy and she is happy, nothing else really matters. If there is a language barrier, study a new language course! Choosing a partner will affect your life more than any other decision you will make. Don’t limit your options with fixable problems.

DON’T: Do not take her on a shopping date. If you do, it will imply something about the relationship that you both probably want to avoid. You will be hurting yourself by either insulting a woman you are interested in or attracting a woman who is only interested in your money. If you avoid shopping dates you will spend your time together talking and getting to know one-another’s personalities. By showering her with empty gifts, she will get an incorrect perception of your personality and will expect that kind of treatment in the future. This kind of situation is bad for everyone involved as the relationship will probably end over time.

DON’T: Do not judge. Simply observe. In order to get to know these women, you must take time to listen to them. Instead of immediately walking away once you find out something you don’t like, take the time to understand where they are coming from. Observe the type of person she is and don’t push her to be who you want her to be. One of the best parts about dating is meeting people who are different than you. A lot of people limit their search to people who are just like them, but this is a major mistake. To grow and learn throughout life, we must explore other people’s perspectives and opinions. With this in mind, focus on learning about who these women are and you will be able to better decipher who is truly compatible with you.

Conclusion
As you can see, the international introduction process includes a lot to consider. To participate successfully requires a lot of research and even more patience. Some people get lucky and meet someone right away, but most take their time until they discover someone just right. Either way, international dating brings happiness and comfort to thousands of people around the world each year.

Although dangers do exist, there are also simple precautions you can take to avoid them. By educating yourself, you will more clearly understand the problems that can arise within this process and be able to avoid them confidently. By taking the time to understand the undertaking, you are increasing your chances of finding true love through international dating.

If you follow these basic “DOs and DON’Ts” of international dating, you too can fall in love with an intelligent, beautiful foreign woman. By filling your head with knowledge and patience, you will be one step closer to love.

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Ukrainian women have bright natural beauty

Ukrainian women

 

There is no secret that Ukrainian  women have bright natural beauty and charming femininity. Women  for Ukraine,  have become the standard of youth, charming, honesty, attractiveness and sexuality. They are focused on marriage and have been brought up in the spirit of the classic family values, have a good education and manners Ukrainian  brides have pushed far way the Latin American and Asian beauties which were very popular in the market of marriage services.

“The bride from Ukraine,” or “Russian bride”; these words, during the last 20 years, have become quite familiar and have moved from the category of curiosities to the sustainable phrases – “Russian mail order brides”. Single girls and women from the former Soviet Union, getting a reputation as an exceptional woman, great housewives and mothers have captured the hearts and minds of men in USA, Canada, Western Europe and Asia. Russians and Ukrainian beauties living in a marriage abroad are the pride of their husbands and rouse the envy in single guys.
Now there is a huge number of possible marriage agencies and dating companies, offering a wide variety of services. Distinguish the geographic location, prices, service and services they solve only one problem-dating with girls from Ukraine and Russia for marriage and serious relationship.

After 8 years of travel we have  access to a huge database of single Russian girls and Ukrainian women. All of them are absolutely real, in their profiles there are a lot of photos With any of the girls on our site, you can not only communicate through chat , but call her and invite he to video chat. We will help you with the virtual communication; also organize a meeting, if you wish to further develop a serious relationship.

We pay great attention to struggle with fraud and scam, which, unfortunately, often happens on dating sites. Our database is carefully checked for the presence of scammers, and at the slightest suspicion, these users are blocked so all of our customers can feel completely safe.

Why Ukrainian women?

Ukrainian womenUkrainian ladies are not just beautiful. They possess many other exceptional qualities. Among our clients you will find women who are intelligent,educated,compassionate,kind,nurturing well traveled,sophisticated,family oriented,spiritual,fun loving, adventurous and value oriented. .

5 reasons why to date Ukrainian Women

1. Loyalty Ukrainian women are among the most loyal of all women. When they decide they want to settle down with a man and have a family,it would take a serious situation to change their minds. When a Ukrainian woman knows what she wants, she will do her best to keep it- that includes nurturing and protecting the relationship and doing what she can do to make her man happy. This is one of the greatest reasons to date these women.

2. Mothering

If you are planning on having a family and are waiting for the perfect person to come along, a Ukrainian girl might be wonderful for you. Most of these women want to have families and they are wonderful mothers and wives. As mothers they are patient,loving,caring,and kind. They are also protective of their children and put their families before anything else. While some women are more career oriented, Ukrainian women enjoy being mothers and wives- and nothing will come before their family.

3. Appearance In case you haven’t already noticed, Ukrainian women are very beautiful. Even if they don’t have the money to purchase the most expensive clothing or jewelry – they know how to make the best of what they have. You will notice that many of these women look as if they have just stepped out of a fashion magazine. They take pride in their appearances and they care about the way they look. They are very feminine and enjoy wearing feminine clothing rather than jeans and a t-shirt, like other women tend to dress.

4. Intelligence
If you want to date women who have intelligence, a Ukrainian lady might be perfect for you Ukrainian women are typically bilingual and they enjoy learning about important issues. They are interested in world affairs, current news, and much more. Ukrainian women also like discussing important issues and learning more about different subjects. This is a great reason to date these women!

5. Respect Ukrainian women are really respectful of their men. They feel as if the man should be the head of the household, and as the head of the household, they deserve respect. While Ukrainian women demand respect as well, they freely give it to their men. If you believe a man and woman should respect each other and continue trying to impress each other after getting comfortable with each other then a Ukrainian woman is great for you.

If you are looking for a partner, soulmate, wife or girlfriend who is beautiful and educated, select a program and register for our dating services so we can start making your dreams come true today!

We would like to get to know you, hear your expectations and dreams and finally find solutions how to change your personal life for the better with your soulmate.

Why Ukrainian brides are seeking for love abroad ?

b2co7wla7iyFrom year to year the technology development makes our world more and more complicated in some way. But from the other side it brings to our life new possibilities. And it’s not a secret that finding a perfect mate becomes more successful in nowadays. Singles all over the world have more opportunities to meet each other and to give love a chance.’

With the help of online dating sites international marriages are not a rare case at all. There are so many happy families in different countries that have been built by people of mixed nationalities.

No matter what country you live in if you do wish to love and to be loved. How much do you want to be happy – that is the point!

The question why Ukrainian  brides are seeking for love abroad is not so unusual anymore. Except they just would like to find true love, they have other very fair reasons for this.

  • *  Ukrainian ladies are very feminine, beautiful, thoughtful and faithful. They believe they deserve to meet a man who will really appreciate these kinds of qualities. In order to increase their chances for such an important meeting, these amazing and courageous ladies ignore geographical borders. So let the whole world know that they are looking for the only one to share the life with.

* Time shows that Slavic women tend to create strong relationships. They are both attentive to the family topic and admire their beloved man. It is laid down by nature for them to be realized in life as a woman first of all. Most of ladies of other nationalities are missing some of these feminine qualities. So when finding a perfect mate of different nationality Ukrainians and Russians feel very comfortable having international relationships. They just express their nature.

It happens quite often that men from America, Europe, Australia are willing to build serious relationships and happy families with stunning women from Ukraine or Russia. The attractiveness of these ladies captivates immediately. Even while men chat with Russian women at first time it is possible to feel their affability and elegance in the conversation.

Furthermore, men consider that Ukrainian  women are having so many advantages that the possible inconveniences and difficulties that are associated with the organization of the first personal meetings, registration of certain documents, including the fiancé visa – is absolutely insignificant compared to the joy, inspiration and fun that these women are able to give.

Femininity, kindness and sexiness make these women so desirable for men all over the world. To fall in love and to marry a  Ukrainian woman means for a man something like «to get a place in a strong football team». To perform in such a team it’s a great chance for successful and happy relationships.

Every single man would like to have a beautiful and intelligent wife, an attentive and devoted friend, a faithful and sexy partner in one person only. These women believe in true love and know how to be the best one for the beloved man. Distance is not a problem for their sincere feelings!

Kharkov is a city known for its beautiful women !

Kharkov Ukraine, Beautiful women.

Kharkov (Russian version, generally used in French and English) and Kharkiv (Ukrainian version).

Kharkov is the second largest city in Ukraine and is also a great cultural, science and education center of the country. In addition, it is an important industrial center. Kharkov has about 1.5 million inhabitants, and was the first capital of Soviet Ukraine from 1917 to 1934.

Kharkov, compared to Kiev,  is a quiet Ukrainian city. That is why it is particularly appreciated by visitors of the city. You do not risk much, at least less than in large European cities.

We want to ensure you that Kharkov is not affected by the movements that taking place in Kiev and several cities in the west. There was no political violence in Kharkov, no demonstrations. We continue to work in usual regime and ensure travel meetings every week.beautiful womenbeautiful women beautiful women beautiful women beautiful women beautiful women beautiful women beautiful women 

Why Ukrainian Women are So Beautiful?

Have you ever met Ukrainian ladies? If yes, I’m sure you were impressed how feminine and beautiful they are… Men who traveled to Ukraine, especially to Kharkov were really impressed )) Almost all the ladies are beautiful , all of them are open and ready to talk and they dress like a real ladies. So why do Ukrainian women differentiate from all others?
At first, I think it’s because of healthy lifestyle and homemade food. 99% of women in Ukraine love to cook and do it really good. And of course what can be better than fresh food made with love) Ladies from Ukraine care themselves a lot. Gym, yoga, outdoor activities are very popular now and for women very important to be in a good shape.
Second is that women here love fashion, they always look feminine and wear dresses high hills. All the ladies in Ukraine wear make up, because for them it’s like a part of morning care. Long hair it’s also not rare in Ukraine, so all this things can make women looks pretty.
In ancient times Ukraine frequently were invaded by the eastern countries. Resulting in mixed blood which gave our nation a special touch in appearance but not only this. Girls in Ukraine as a Slovenian women have very gentle and soft character, but at the same time as the Eastern people have a very hot temper that of course can’t leave men indifferent.
This is only a few thing about Ukrainian ladies, but be sure that men, who ever had Ukrainian girlfriend or wife, will never ever chose other nationality any more))
You believe us?)) NO? The just come and see all this beauty! Our professional manager and her team can help you with choosing a tour and who knows, maybe you will come back to your country not lonely anymore)))
No Borders For Love provides only high quality services and we have only women who seriously wants to get married on our website.

Ukraine beautiful country in the heart of the Europe!

Ukraine beautiful country

Ukraine beautiful country

Map of Ukraine

Ukraine  beautiful country in the heart of the Europe

What is the capital of Ukraine?
Kiev (Kyiv) is one of the oldest and biggest cities in Eastern Europe, as well as the capital and largest city of Ukraine.

Ukraine is a beautiful country in the heart of the Europe

Where is Ukraine located?
Ukraine is located in Eastern Europe, north of the Black Sea, and next to Russia. Ukraine also borders Poland, Slovakia, Hungary, Romania, Moldova, and Belarus. So it’s easy to get here from Europe and from other countries.

How big is Ukraine?
Ukraine covers about 603,550 square kilometers, which makes it the largest country entirely in Europe and the second largest country in Europe after Russia.

What is the population of Ukraine?
Over 45 million people live in Ukraine.

What is the official language of Ukraine?
Ukrainian is the official language of Ukraine, but Russian is recognized as regional language, about 50% of people speak Russian. Other minority languages spoken in Ukraine are Romanian, Polish, and Hungarian.

What religion is practiced in Ukraine?
The main religion in Ukraine is Ukrainian Orthodox Christianity of both the Kyiv Patriarchate and the Moscow Patriarchate, which has influenced the country’s culture and architecture. Other major religions include Ukrainian Greek Catholicism, Ukrainian Autocephalous, Roman Catholicism, Muslim Protestantism, and Judaism.

Ukraine is a beautiful country in the heart of the Europe

When was Ukraine founded?
Ukraine has been known under various names and been ruled by various other countries over its existence. Ukraine’s territory has changed and moved around several times since it was first founded. During the 10th and 11th centuries, Ukraine was known as Kyivian Rus, and was the first East Slavic State, which was the most powerful nation in Europe at the time.

In the 14th century, the region was ruled by the Golden Horde, Grand Duchy of Lithuania, and Poland, before becoming the Cossack state in 1648.

The Great Northern War in the early 1700s divided Ukraine among regional powers once again.
At the end of the 18th and much of the 19th centuries, most of Ukraine was part of the Russian Empire, and the rest was controlled by Austria-Hungary.

Ukraine became the Ukrainian Soviet Socialist Republic (Ukrainian SSR) in 1919, which was part of part of the Soviet Union from 1922 to 1991. The Ukrainian SSR was one of the Soviet Union’s 15 constituent republics, and was primarily controlled by Moscow.

When did Ukraine become independent?
Ukraine became independent for a brief time from 1917 to 1920 after czarist Russia fell and before the creation of the Soviet Union. More recently, Ukraine became independent from the USSR when it dissolved in 1991. Ukraine’s Independence Day is August 24, 1991.

When is Ukraine’s national holiday?
Ukraine’s national holiday celebrates its independence from the Soviet Union on August 24, 1991. Ukraine also celebrates Unity Day, when Western and Eastern Ukrainian republics united in 1919

What are Ukraine’s administrative regions?
Like Russia, Ukraine is divided into oblasts, or provinces, and one autonomous republic: Crimea. Ukraine also has two cities with a special status: Kiev and Sevastopol.

There are 24 oblasts in Ukraine.

Who are Ukraine’s political leaders?
President: Viktor Yanukovych

Prime Minister: Mykola Azarov

What form of currency does Ukraine use?
Ukraine has been using the hryvnia, or grivna (UAH) since September 2, 1996. The grivna was the currency of Kievan Rus, back in the 11th century.

What are some aspects of Ukraine’s culture and traditions?
Ukrainian culture is heavily influenced by the Ukrainian Orthodox church, neighboring nations, since the country’s boundaries have changed many times, there is much overlap. Food in Ukraine is typical Eastern European food, such as cheese (especially head cheese), sausage, and borshch, which is the national soup of Ukraine.

Many ancient traditions are carried on in Ukraine today, like traditional dances and music. One Ukrainian tradition is the decorating of Pysanka, or Ukrainian Easter egg during Holy Week, the week leading up to Easter. Pysanky are intricately decorated using a wax-relief method, though there are many variations on design and techniques for creating these eggs. There are many superstitions surrounding these Easter eggs, primarily about their protective powers and effects on fertility.

Ukraine is a beautiful country in the heart of the Europe.

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Russian dating

Mistakes Men Make When Dating Ukrainian Women

Ukrainian Women
Mistakes Men Make When Dating Ukrainian Women

Ukrainian dating is not easy, is it? As a matchmaker, I have noticed over and over again that the vast majority of Western men naturally make the same basic mistakes when dating Ukrainian ladies. Why is that? Because there are a plenty of cultural and dating etiquette differences. All people are different, there are no doubts. However, if you decided to date a Ukrainian lady, you should pay attention to every tiny detail.

Understanding the basics of Ukrainian dating is more than important. I can discuss this issue over and over again. Very often, the male customers complain about the marriage agency services due to the missing success in their dating process. But you should know that no serious and reliable matchmaking and/or marriage agency can guarantee you that their service will meet your requirements, goals or expectations.

The biggest mistake most men tend to make is an idea of “buying goods (a Ukrainian woman) in a store (marriage agency)“. Are you guilty of making this dating mistake, too? We are talking about romantic relationships (an expression of one’s strong romantic love, or one’s deep and strong emotional desires to connect with another person intimately or romantically. Source: Wikipedia), and a couple has to be smart and work hard enough to to make it lead into marriage.

I say it over and over again to all my customers that Ukrainian dating is more than tough. I am not the only one who tries to bring awareness to this subject. Many other Ukrainian bloggers also do:

So if you don’t want to fail in your Ukrainian dating search, don’t commit a single one of these basic mistakes you can make when dating women from Ukraine.

Mistake #1: Getting a lady’s direct contact is (more than) enough.

Many Western men try to avoid online dating agencies for some reasons (which are understandable). Instead, they just prefer to buy ladies’ telephone numbers or e-mail addresses.

The marriage agency’s task is to make sure that a lady is interested in a man and wishes to begin the first stage of communication. Let’s say this is done and two people are connected. But did you do your homework to find common, interesting subjects for your conversation? How about asking some questions to keep a conversation going online?

It is important to remember that writing about you and the woman’s daily routine will lead to boredom and monotony after 2-3 messages and you risk losing the woman’s interest. Make her miss your quirky and diversified conversation, then you are a winner.

Mistake #2: Being young and attractive really matter.

Many men mistakenly think that having an attractive appereance may help in building up relationships. Does physical appearance matter in a Ukrainian-Western relationship? And what role does attraction play in the Ukrainian women’s pursuit of marriage?

Today many Ukrainian ladies are well educated and smart. Yes, many of them pay attention to men’s age, and some of them pay attention to a man’s appearance, too. The first impression is definitely very important, but I have to mention that Ukrainian women do not care as much about the appearance of their husbands. They are looking for a protective man, or a wealthy man, or a clever man, or even a sensitive man.

The fact is that physical attractiveness really matters when people are getting to know each other (the first stages of online dating). In other words, if you are attractive but have an aggressive or annoying personality, you have only a few chances to find a serious and genius woman abroad.

Mistake #3: Being proud of being a long-term single.

There are plenty of men who remain single even in their 50’s. If you are a deep-rooted bachelor, the situation is not in your favor, unfortunately. Is it difficult for you to take care for anyone or share your life with a potential wife? Starting a new life in a relationship may be very hard for you. Hard, but not impossible.

First of all, you should ask yourself, “Is marriage really what I want? What is my purpose for having a marriage with a woman from Ukraine? Am I ready to see someone new in my house every day, and how about sharing not only good moments but also bad ones?”

If your answer is YES, then you are supposed to learn a lot about dating Ukrainian women, namely:

  • how to treat them properly,
  • how to build up a healthy and long-term relationship,
  • how to deal with intercultural differences in a marriage,
  • how to overcome language barriers in your communication.

I even recommend to get in touch with a family psychologist who would give you a great piece of useful advice how to be hapilly married with your foreign spouse. Do not forget to learn about Ukrainian people’s mentality, as it’s different than your own.

Mistake #4: Less is not more

Once getting in touch with a lady, some men start giving hundreds of phone calls and write hundreds of messages to her per day. Believe me, this amount of messages and calls can be very annoying. It is important to respect the woman’s private space.

If the woman decides to share her contact information with you, that means you are responsible for making her feel good by sending your messages or calling her, you are not allowed being intrusive. If you show yourself as a polite gentleman who knows how to respect a lady’s interests, you will always have the key to a successful relationship at your disposal.

Mistake #5: Looking for a woman who is 20 years younger than you

This is one of the most common Ukrainian dating mistakes. The relationships with a large age gap have traditionally been looked at with suspicion. In my experience, many people think that a gap of 15 years in a Ukrainian-Western relationship is OK, but anything beyond this tends to raise a few eyebrows.

Due to a huge age difference, you should consider some things that require a lot of consideration in a relationship such as different life stages, children issue, different levels of fitness, health, and social life, different expectations and life purposes. As long as you have the same goals for the relationship and marriage then it can and does work. But you must think about that issue – it is serious.

Learn more aboout age gap issues in a Ukrainian-Western relationship:

  • Is the age difference a concern for Ukrainian Women?
  • Dating Survey: the age difference in Russian/Ukrainian-Western relationships
  • Ukraine Dating Dilemma: Age Differences

Mistake #6: Lacking any confidence at all

Nooo! Being comfortable in his own skin is what makes any man feel like a man!  It’s a little secret. Any lady immediately feels if a man is capable and self-assured or not.

If you are not feeling comfortable and confident while dating your Ukrainian woman, she could feel just compassion and empathy for you. By the way, that’s why many Ukrainian men lacking self-confidence try to build their backbone with help of expensive cars; they even take a loan from a bank to buy it in order to prove to someone (especially to ladies) that they are an alpha male -:lol

Self-confidence is extremely sexy to a Ukrainian woman. That means that projecting self-confidence is definitely another key to your dating success. Having intelligence would be beneficial to you, too.

Mistake #7: Don’t be a tight ass!

When dating a Ukrainian lady, do not share the bill and make her pay. It’s considered to be impolite in Ukrainian dating culture. When you invite a woman on a date, it’s your responsibility to take care of her. After all you want her to be able to relax and enjoy her time with you, don’t you?

Ukrainian ladies understand a favorite phrase of many men: “I’m not rich” as “I’m tight and stingy.” Remember that no Ukrainian lady will agree to marry a stingy man and leave her country if she doesn’t feel financially secure from her husband. Not willing to pay on your date is a red flag any woman is aware of and might be a reason for her not to continue a relationship with you.

Video Tutorial: To pay or not to pay for a Ukrainian or Russian woman?

Needless to say, every lady needs you to create a little fiesta in her daily routine.
Every lady wishes flowers, candies, shopping and teddies. It is not necessary to be a rich guy in order to please your woman. With help of these little things, you can make her feel safe and smile every day.

Then you are a winner. You are laying a good foundation of an exciting, lasting and successful relationship.

Guest post by Katrina Elbahey

I thank a lot to Krystyna for letting me to publish one of my articles on her blog!

About the author: Katrina Elbahey lives and works in Ukraine. She has 2 masters degrees, one of which is in Practical Psychology. Katrina successfully runs her own International marriage agency KateModels.com for more than 10 years, and is a founder of a dating blog Brides-hunter.com to give an idea to her customers how to date Ukrainian brides and how to achieve better results in establishing serious relationships.

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How do Ukrainian women feel about Age Differences ?

Age difference

How do Ukrainian women feel about Age Differences ? Age difference between partners has long been a question of interest. Remember your high school days when dating someone a year senior was extremely cool. Research on age difference in couples suggests that while the desired gap for men and women is around 13-14 years on average (10-25 years), as specified in their partner preferences on online dating sites, in reality long-term pairs only have 3-4 years disparity.
Age difference between partners has long been a question of interest. Remember your high school days when dating someone a year senior was extremely cool. Research on age difference in couples suggests that while the desired gap for men and women is around 13-14 years on average (10-25 years), as specified in their partner preferences on online dating sites, in reality long-term pairs only have 3-4 years disparity.

Age difference in dating

The research data may be surprising, but it makes sense. When dating, we are more open to trying out new things, thus a wider gap we list as acceptable. But relationships are more than just movies and dinners, and moonlight walks on the beach. One of my most memorable experiences was dating a guy 20 years older when I was 21. He was amazing and so much more sophisticated than boys in my university group. Did it last? Of course not! I never even felt it was for real. It was what it was, an experience. We had very little to talk about or discuss, and never been very close. His friends and mine were too far apart. There was really nothing connecting us except our interest in each other.

Age difference in relationships

Other research suggests that the ideal gap in relationships is 4.4 years, and divorced people tend to have a larger disparity in subsequent marriages. In a way, this is to be expected. Young people usually pair up within their age group, as at that point in life their circle of communication is limited to people of about the same maturity. Divorced people, obviously, are older. By then our circles of acquaintances grow to be more spread through generations, and personal values and life style become more important than how old the two partners are. Still, real-life couples rarely have a generation-long discrepancy between them.

When the age difference is too large?

Most often in married couples a man is older than a woman. Many pairs continue a relationship that started back in high school, thus their difference will be smaller. It became more acceptable for both men and women to experiment with dating younger people. However, these alliances very seldom produce a committed partnership, and even more rarely survive past 10 years. In couples where the age gap approaches generational, the older partner is under a constant and significant stress. While it may be very exciting at first, the long-term prospects of such relationships are directly affected by how self-worthy the mature spouse feels. Being afraid that your younger half may leave is likely to aid in deterioration of your marriage. Not many people are capable of feeling like the proverbial 70-year-old billionaire, who, being asked about his marriage to an 18-year-old beauty queen, and pointed out that when he is 80, she is going to be 28, responded with, “Well, I can always marry another 18-year-old”.

Let’s be honest. Age difference in couples affects their long-term prospects. Anything over 15 years is too large a gap. If you want to play, fine, but don’t lie to yourself. There are beautiful, intelligent, caring individuals who will make great partners, and with whom you can be happy over the long haul. Give yourself a chance.
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Age difference in dating

The research data may be surprising, but it makes sense. When dating, we are more open to trying out new things, thus a wider gap we list as acceptable. But relationships are more than just movies and dinners, and moonlight walks on the beach. One of my most memorable experiences was dating a guy 20 years older when I was 21. He was amazing and so much more sophisticated than boys in my university group. Did it last? Of course not! I never even felt it was for real. It was what it was, an experience. We had very little to talk about or discuss, and never been very close. His friends and mine were too far apart. There was really nothing connecting us except our interest in each other.

Age difference in relationships

Other research suggests that the ideal gap in relationships is 4.4 years, and divorced people tend to have a larger disparity in subsequent marriages. In a way, this is to be expected. Young people usually pair up within their age group, as at that point in life their circle of communication is limited to people of about the same maturity. Divorced people, obviously, are older. By then our circles of acquaintances grow to be more spread through generations, and personal values and life style become more important than how old the two partners are. Still, real-life couples rarely have a generation-long discrepancy between them.

When the age difference is too large?

Most often in married couples a man is older than a woman. Many pairs continue a relationship that started back in high school, thus their difference will be smaller. It became more acceptable for both men and women to experiment with dating younger people. However, these alliances very seldom produce a committed partnership, and even more rarely survive past 10 years. In couples where the age gap approaches generational, the older partner is under a constant and significant stress. While it may be very exciting at first, the long-term prospects of such relationships are directly affected by how self-worthy the mature spouse feels. Being afraid that your younger half may leave is likely to aid in deterioration of your marriage. Not many people are capable of feeling like the proverbial 70-year-old billionaire, who, being asked about his marriage to an 18-year-old beauty queen, and pointed out that when he is 80, she is going to be 28, responded with, “Well, I can always marry another 18-year-old”.

Let’s be honest. Age difference in couples affects their long-term prospects. Anything over 15 years is too large a gap. If you want to play, fine, but don’t lie to yourself. There are beautiful, intelligent, caring individuals who will make great partners, and with whom you can be happy over the long haul. Give yourself a chance.

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Welcome to NO Borders for Love

NO Borders for Love

 

We are dedicated to privately assisting discreet discerning gentlemen find their “One Love” while they pursue their busy and challenging lifestyles. Let our Executive Matchmakers at NO Borders for Love show you our exclusive process.

Here you will find example of current ladies in our database that live in Kharkov, our next tour city. Most of the ladies have bachelor degrees or higher. These ladies are just some of the thousands of commitment minded ladies that are available.

Most men who see pictures of the amazing Ukrainian ladies that our clients have met wonder how this is possible?

First of all, I can tell you that in Ukraine, 20-25 year age differences is quite common. Secondly, Ukrainian men are known to have little respect for marriage and a large percent of them refuse to have children. Wives are often left to “fend for themselves” as many husbands spend more time outside of the nest. All the women who come to our agency say that they are eager to meet a “foreigner.” They are family oriented and enjoy pleasing their husbands and creating a strong family unit. They know that westernized men invest themselves in a marriage, respect their wives and child care duties are usually split among both parents. Of course it doesn’t mean that Ukrainian ladies will be with any man from abroad. All of them want to find that special someone who they can connect with on many levels. You can be certain, that all the ladies from No Borders for Love are serious and commitment minded. They will not waste your time and money if they don’t feel a connection. All of our ladies here have one goal and dream: to find a loving man who they can build a family with. We are American owned and operated in Atlanta, Georgia.

1. Can you work with men outside the United States?

No I am sorry at the current time we can only work with american citizens although we do hope to expand in the future.

2. Can I speak with one of the girls you posted?
We post girls from our database to give examples of the girls we work with , however we are not a communications site. For Chat there are many choices but sadly in most case you will spend a lot money with no results.

3. We are executive matchmakers. Men hire us to find a wife,
We do this by extensive interviews of the client, to find out who he is and what he looking for in a wife. We then use our extensive resources to find the best matches. We help provide communication, (most girls do not speak english) organize a trip, and plan a wonderful ten days for the couple to get to know each other. We take care of all the details so you can concentrate on just having and good time, getting to know your lady and hopefully falling in love. We one of the few services that actually arranges real dates with a lady you choose, No losing thousands in chat, or going to socials with girls you never met and who you know nothing about. See our website www.nobordersforlove.com  for more information.

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UKRAINIAN Dating: SCAMS, SCAMS AND MORE SCAMS!

 

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Ukrainian dating Scams.

Dave Stevens am a expert on Ukrainian marriage agencies scams and marriage agencies in general found that
“70% of Russian marriage agencies are scams. Of the 30% that are legitimate, 50% have unethical practices that serve only to get your money. Russian scam agencies out number legitimate agencies. Marriage agencies in Ukraine continue to find new methods of scamming you and some of these scams are more difficult to detect as a scam”

After traveling to Ukraine for 8 years i have seen many men scammed. Anything and everything, But yet at the same time many men have met wonderful ladies and are now married and very happy. I have also met many girls in Ukraine that were tricked by foreign men, so while this happens much less serious girls need to be careful also.

Over the next few days i will explain all the different types of sites and other options and how most are basically scams, I will also explain how we are different.
But the bottom line while no agency can promise to find you love, i can promise that we are the easiest and safest way to meet Ukrainian girls and you will have a real date with a beautiful and serious girl.

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Single Ukrainian Women are NOT Mail Order Brides

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They are Simply Single Ladies Seeking a Good Husband
When traveling to Ukraine and seeing so many attractive girls, it is easy to see why so many people think that Ukrainian girls are among the most attractive and charming girls in the world. How can it be? How can such a majority of these girls be so attractive, fit, slender …absolutely gorgeous?
They compete against fewer men, they eat healthy and live an active way of life. Check the pictures of beautiful Ukrainian girls and you will want to travel to Ukraine!
Single Ukrainian ladies don`t like to be tagged as mail order brides. They are simply single ladies who are seeking a good and decent man for husband. Each year, thousands of men are lucky enough to make a beautiful Ukrainian woman their loving wife.
Ukrainian women are intelligent, generally well educated, family oriented and …beautiful! Does it sounds too good to be true? Forget the mail order brides concept; these beautiful ladies simply want to be a good wife to a worthy man. It is that simple.
Ukrainian women are hard workers and quick learners. Given the chance, they will demonstrate their skills. However, and this point is very important, they will keep the family values above financial and career issues.

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Find Ukrainian women without being scammed !

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Avoiding scams.

There many options with regard to searching for Ukrainian women. If you do a search on Google or any other major search engine, most of the results will be what are called “communications sites”. There are basically match dot com meets the old 976 porn chat lines.You can chat with single girls but you pay by the minute. On the largest site anastasiadate dot com, you pay between $.40 and $.80 cents a minute. That doubles to between .80 and 1.60 if you add video and goes to get premium video which includes two way video rate goes to $2.40 $4.80 A MINUTE. So at close to $5.00 a minute. the bill can add up fast.
Men can easily spend $5000.00 to $10,000.00 a month on this site. What do you get for all the money? Thousands of photos of beautiful girls and almost constant chat requests from the girls.The cost of the site is just the first problem. Many of the photos are heavily photo shopped, so…unless you see the girl on video you really have no idea what she looks like. Second, many of girls are there just to earn money. Because of the high fees the site and sites like it generate a lot money, this allows the owner of the website, to pay the local agencies.Many of the local agencies in turn pay the girls. The sites claim you will receive plenty of attention, well that is true because most of the chat requests are automated and sent to hundreds of men at one time. The girl often has no idea who is getting her chat requests. Same deal with the letters, you will receive letters day in and day out from girls you have never written. Do you really believe that a beautiful 19 year old girl has nothing to do but write letters to a fifty year old man that is never written her? Then of course there gifts on the sites. Over priced flowers, cost at least double the local price more often four or five times. But it get better, the agencies get part of this profit and some even share with the girls.

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What to look for in an International Matchmaking agency!

International Matchmaking agency

This me and my girlfriend  Anna !

What to look for in an International  Matchmaking agency! There many tools available today to find a partner. From do-it yourself websites like “Match” to the “Millionaire Matchmakers” and everything in between. No agency seems to have a major formula. It really comes down to a few major items.
1, Is the company creditable? Every business needs to make a profit but is profit the company’s only goal?
2. Get as many details as possible about how the company will find the girl you are looking. The answer needs to be more than “we have a large database. or we matched thousand of couples” What is the plan to find the right lady for you ?
3. Who is really going to match you? Usually it is not the commission sales person you meet with to start. Matching is the most critical component to any agency. What’s the person’s experience? Where are the matches coming
from? ( are they paid members or free members). And to be honest, there is just no substitute for hard work.
4. What are the fees and what are you getting for them? Is it just dates or are there other services? Many agencies consider a date complete once they girl send you a name and contact number and the rest is up to you.
Email me or use the contact form and i will answer any questions you have.

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ROMANTIC TRIPS – UKRAINE

ROMANTIC TRIPS - UKRAINEDON’T WASTE TIME ON CHAT SITES WHERE MANY OF THE GIRLS ARE NOT EVEN REAL.

We offer a chance to date real girls with our romantic TRIPS – Ukraine .
Romantic Tour is a great adventure that can change your life! It is the best way to find a beautiful woman from Ukraine! No Borders For Love offers romance trips to many cities in Ukraine. You can meet your special woman who will fill your life and house with joy, happiness and love! We used all contacts all over Ukraine to find the “Love of your Life” for you, we can even do a specialized advertising campaign just for you,

A TRIP to the Ukraine is the most important step in building a relationship with your future Ukrainian bride. We will do everything in our power so that you feel comfortable, relaxed and most importantly safe during your trip. The tour is a time for you to sit back and enjoy real dates with these wonderful, marriage minded women. Your only job is to tell us what you would like to see, how you would like to spend your time, and which women you would like to meet. We build your personal tour schedule according to your desire.

We firmly believe that the best way for these potential couples to get to know each other is by meeting face to face. Our helpful staff will be there to assist you in arranging meetings, organizing reservations, excursions and anything else that sparks your interest We also assist with any communication before your meeting (video calls and chat) as well as arrange a translator for you and your date to ensure your meetings go well and you can easily be understood.

Please do not hesitate to reach out to us with any concerns or questions you may have about the process. We are here for you one hundred percent and look forward to having you join us on our next trip!

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The Easiest and safest way to Date Ukrainian women!

I know many of the beautiful girls on our site seem too good to be true. I know many of you have seen fake photos on other sites. But that is why we are different! Every girl we post is real and looking for a relationship with a foreign man. Our company not only finds the girl you are looking for, we arrange video phones calls and dates in the Ukraine as well! How can you be sure it will be the same girl? I personally go on every trip. If you do not meet the girl you selected you will receive a full refund. It is that simple.
No company can promise the girl will fall in love with you but we do provide the best chance for you to find the love you have been missing in your life.

A return to my former Home Land

Has anyone seen those clever ancestry com commercials, guy thinks he German heritage and turns out hes Scottish )

I know little about my past but i was told my grandparents were from Russia as many Jewish people were. But now as I look after i started traveling to Ukraine, and having the strong feeling i would marry a Ukrainian girl one day, I learned the real story of my heritage. I was able to trace roots to a Candle Maker in the 1700’s, and he was not Russian at all. He lived in small village called Sokolivka, which in fact is Ukraine. So now almost 250 years later i return to my former homeland to steal away a few beautiful Ukrainian girls )

 

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Romance Tours to Ukraine

If you want a Ukrainian girl you must go to Ukraine!
She is not waiting for you on a website or chat site.
She is waiting for the right man to come to her.

A Romance Tours to Ukraine is a great adventure that can change your life! It is the best way to find a beautiful woman from Ukraine! No Borders for love offers Romance Tours to Ukraine. Our tours are intended to help you to meet your special woman who will fill your life and house with joy, happiness and love! You can come to meet any woman in in our database as long as she agrees .  Our  service is only for men that are looking for marriage.  If you join our process starts with finding out what you consider to be the most important traits in a wife.  We build a profile of the kind of girl your are looking for. We need build a profile of you to provide to are many agencies and affiliates in Ukraine,  We need present you with three to files profiles,  If any of the profiles interest you we arrange a video skype telephone call. This gives you a chance to actually see and hear the girl. If there mutual interest then normally you would continue video calls on a regular basis. Depending on the plan you choose you will pick one to eight girls to meet for an actual date.  We arrange the date and travel with you to Ukraine. No other service provides this level of support.  Our approach is more time consuming but our success rate is extremely high, While large tours can take twenty to thirty men to Ukraine, with none leaving Ukraine find a girl,  most of the men we take start a relationship on the very first trip.

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